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So I’ve always wanted a ballerina ring but every jeweller I’ve had, has side eyed me and told me it’s in poor taste when I ponder setting one of my faceted gems in that style. I go from being inspired by Harry Winston to the ballerina style which they find bizarre. But still it has always been in the back of my mind that it’s something I would love to add to my collection. One of my first rings was a CZ ballerina style ring with a lifeless dark blue stone that was meant to emulate a sapphire (and you wonder why I have issues with blue sapphires). I hated the blue but thoroughly enjoyed that setting as a kid.
Anyways, back to the point! Recently on a trip to Japan I discovered that I was allowed to take photos of jewellery in shops which is a far cry from Australia where they are especially nasty about pictures!!!! Anyways I was having a lavender jadeite crisis but in the midst of that crisis I decided to take a bunch of pictures of this ballerina opal ring because I was super hyperactive and just overwhelmed by two levels of pre loved jewellery. I needed something to do to ground myself!




I REALLY loved the ring but as it was almost closing time and I didn’t have my passport with me, I headed back to the hotel to ask the kid for his opinion about the lavenders. Out of nowhere he asks me how much the opal is. I tell him and he informs meme excitedly that he’s going to buy it tomorrow.
Me: What??? Use up your life savings???
Him: YOU KNOW I LOVE OPALS! I watched an entire reality series on opal mining.
Me: But this is so random!
Him: I’m going to buy it Ma!
Me: But I saw it first! And you’ll use up a lot of your savings!
Him: But I want it!!!!!
Me: Hold on! Let’s think about this logically. I’ll buy it, wear it so that it does some work for us and you can inherit it from me one day.
Him: I guess that could work.
So we returned the next day and bought it! This is my very poor lighting at home. Not bad huh!!!



I should also add that I showed the kid several better opals with the red flashes that are supposed to be worth more and he still loves this one the best! So that’s a big win! I was always a bit melancholy when I had a boy that he wouldn’t be into gems like I was (and it’s such a big hobby of mine) but things work out in such interesting ways.
Anyways, back to the point! Recently on a trip to Japan I discovered that I was allowed to take photos of jewellery in shops which is a far cry from Australia where they are especially nasty about pictures!!!! Anyways I was having a lavender jadeite crisis but in the midst of that crisis I decided to take a bunch of pictures of this ballerina opal ring because I was super hyperactive and just overwhelmed by two levels of pre loved jewellery. I needed something to do to ground myself!




I REALLY loved the ring but as it was almost closing time and I didn’t have my passport with me, I headed back to the hotel to ask the kid for his opinion about the lavenders. Out of nowhere he asks me how much the opal is. I tell him and he informs meme excitedly that he’s going to buy it tomorrow.
Me: What??? Use up your life savings???
Him: YOU KNOW I LOVE OPALS! I watched an entire reality series on opal mining.
Me: But this is so random!
Him: I’m going to buy it Ma!
Me: But I saw it first! And you’ll use up a lot of your savings!
Him: But I want it!!!!!
Me: Hold on! Let’s think about this logically. I’ll buy it, wear it so that it does some work for us and you can inherit it from me one day.
Him: I guess that could work.
So we returned the next day and bought it! This is my very poor lighting at home. Not bad huh!!!



I should also add that I showed the kid several better opals with the red flashes that are supposed to be worth more and he still loves this one the best! So that’s a big win! I was always a bit melancholy when I had a boy that he wouldn’t be into gems like I was (and it’s such a big hobby of mine) but things work out in such interesting ways.