hawaiianorangetree
Ideal_Rock
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So we are 4.5 months out and our plans to have. Home wedding have fallen through. Partly because of the stress that it is causing and partly because of the ever expanding costs.
I had budgeted $8000 and thought it was doable, but itlooks like it will be well over $10000 by the time we are through and it is just too much.
We have spent the last 10 months sinking all our money into the house doing renos to make sure it looks good and those costs were slot more than we anticipated as well, so much that I have to use the wedding Money to finish off stuff that we have started.
And now it''s just one big mess with a supposed wedding date 4.5 months away with no plan and hardly any money to spend.
So part ofme thinks we should postpone the whole thing for a year until we can save the money again, but then part of me knows I will be completely miserable come march because I just want
to get married.
We have discussed just taking our girls to the registry office, get married and have dinner on our own so that we can still go on our honeymoon which is booked but fmil isn''t too keen on that idea. (fair enough).
she keeps throwing all these ideas at me and telling me to go cost them which is sweet of her because she wants me to feel like. Bride on my wedding day, but, well I don''t really want to do it half way just for the sake of having a wedding that other people can attend, and everything costs money! So we are back to the begining problem. It''s
like one big circle that doesn''t let up.
So I honestly don''t know what to do, I can''t follow my heart or my head right now. Lol and I guess I just wanted to get it off my chest.
I''m on my iPhone so sorry for the mistakes and bad spacing.
I had budgeted $8000 and thought it was doable, but itlooks like it will be well over $10000 by the time we are through and it is just too much.
We have spent the last 10 months sinking all our money into the house doing renos to make sure it looks good and those costs were slot more than we anticipated as well, so much that I have to use the wedding Money to finish off stuff that we have started.
And now it''s just one big mess with a supposed wedding date 4.5 months away with no plan and hardly any money to spend.
So part ofme thinks we should postpone the whole thing for a year until we can save the money again, but then part of me knows I will be completely miserable come march because I just want
to get married.
We have discussed just taking our girls to the registry office, get married and have dinner on our own so that we can still go on our honeymoon which is booked but fmil isn''t too keen on that idea. (fair enough).
she keeps throwing all these ideas at me and telling me to go cost them which is sweet of her because she wants me to feel like. Bride on my wedding day, but, well I don''t really want to do it half way just for the sake of having a wedding that other people can attend, and everything costs money! So we are back to the begining problem. It''s
like one big circle that doesn''t let up.
So I honestly don''t know what to do, I can''t follow my heart or my head right now. Lol and I guess I just wanted to get it off my chest.
I''m on my iPhone so sorry for the mistakes and bad spacing.