ChargerGrrl
Ideal_Rock
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- Aug 17, 2005
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Hello All:
Our search for our ring has taken a very quick step forward (which is good!), but I'm feeling wierd.
Here's the story (sorry it's long!):
I have the good fortune of traveling to Houston next week on biz. While there, I'm planning to visit WhiteFlash, which happens to be my favorite e-vendor. Originally, the point of my visit was to look at settings, as I'm not certain on which one is "it". And yes, I was also going to check out some stones (what's in house)- just to see differences in color, clarity, etc... So, he asks me a bit about the e-vendor shopping process, (i'm the one doing the preliminary research, and he was to "take over" when the time is right). After he has it all down, he comments that it would make so much more sense for me to take a look at stones that meet all our specs while I am at WF ("make the most out of your visit") He figures that it would cut the step of having to ship potential stones for us to check them out in person later. WF doesn't have instock what we're looking for so, they would have to be brought in. OK... so I search (here's where my homework on PS paid off!), and work with my WF rep to call in a stone that meets our specs. Here's the thread:
https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/pls-comment-on-idealscope-pic-of-princess.33660/
Bottom line- if this stone looks as good to me in person than it does on paper, then it very well will be the one. He'll then take over and work with WF to wrap the process up, including selecting my setting from the two I narrow it down to during my visit. Note that the original plan was for him to buy the ring sometime in Oct/Nov- so this has pushed things up quite a bit!
So what's my beef? I kinda feel wierd that in essense, he's buying the stone sight unseen! He totally trusts my input, and If I say it's the one, then he'll run with it. He seems to be OK with that, but I kinda feel like it's taken "something" out of the equation. He's romantic, but also extremely practical. And that's the side that's kicking in right now.
Overall, I'm OK with how this may go down. But I kinda feel uneasy. Am I being silly for no reason? What do you think? I keep telling myself that at least I'll have the element of surprise when it comes to the setting and when he actually proposes(I have NO idea about this!).
I Love this man, and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. In the end, that's what it's all about.
THANKS for listening/reading!
CG
Our search for our ring has taken a very quick step forward (which is good!), but I'm feeling wierd.
Here's the story (sorry it's long!):
I have the good fortune of traveling to Houston next week on biz. While there, I'm planning to visit WhiteFlash, which happens to be my favorite e-vendor. Originally, the point of my visit was to look at settings, as I'm not certain on which one is "it". And yes, I was also going to check out some stones (what's in house)- just to see differences in color, clarity, etc... So, he asks me a bit about the e-vendor shopping process, (i'm the one doing the preliminary research, and he was to "take over" when the time is right). After he has it all down, he comments that it would make so much more sense for me to take a look at stones that meet all our specs while I am at WF ("make the most out of your visit") He figures that it would cut the step of having to ship potential stones for us to check them out in person later. WF doesn't have instock what we're looking for so, they would have to be brought in. OK... so I search (here's where my homework on PS paid off!), and work with my WF rep to call in a stone that meets our specs. Here's the thread:
https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/pls-comment-on-idealscope-pic-of-princess.33660/
Bottom line- if this stone looks as good to me in person than it does on paper, then it very well will be the one. He'll then take over and work with WF to wrap the process up, including selecting my setting from the two I narrow it down to during my visit. Note that the original plan was for him to buy the ring sometime in Oct/Nov- so this has pushed things up quite a bit!
So what's my beef? I kinda feel wierd that in essense, he's buying the stone sight unseen! He totally trusts my input, and If I say it's the one, then he'll run with it. He seems to be OK with that, but I kinda feel like it's taken "something" out of the equation. He's romantic, but also extremely practical. And that's the side that's kicking in right now.
Overall, I'm OK with how this may go down. But I kinda feel uneasy. Am I being silly for no reason? What do you think? I keep telling myself that at least I'll have the element of surprise when it comes to the setting and when he actually proposes(I have NO idea about this!).
I Love this man, and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. In the end, that's what it's all about.
THANKS for listening/reading!
CG