tuffyluvr
Brilliant_Rock
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My bf's mom really wanted to go to his high school alma mater's playoff game tonight, so we made plans to go with her. I left work at 5:00--it usually takes me 15-20 minutes to get home. Traffic was horrible. I called at 5:10--no answer. He called me 10-15 min later, and I explained the situation. He literally called back 3 minutes later asking where I was. I was like, "ummmm... I just talked to you three minutes ago. I am still pretty much in the same place." He asked, "are you moving at all? When will you be back?" I answered that I was about 15 minutes away and asked why he was calling 3 minutes after I spoke to him, and if it was extremely urgent, why didn't they just leave without me. I got home 15 minutes later and they had left!!!
I am furious! I checked my phone and there is a text that says, "We're leaving. Be home aroung 11-12. Sorry." I am pretty irritated that they left without me, but moreso, I am fuming that he didn't even call me to tell me that they were leaving.
I could have stayed at the office and worked for another hour or two, but instead I rushed home only to sit at home alone all night, so now I'm stewing about how pissed off I am. What do you PS'ers think? Do I have the right to be angry about this, or is it my own fault for telling him that if it was so urgent they should just leave without me. I don't know if my judgement is clouded because I have hurt feelings about being ditched, or if it really is as rude as I think. Objective opinions please.
I am furious! I checked my phone and there is a text that says, "We're leaving. Be home aroung 11-12. Sorry." I am pretty irritated that they left without me, but moreso, I am fuming that he didn't even call me to tell me that they were leaving.
I could have stayed at the office and worked for another hour or two, but instead I rushed home only to sit at home alone all night, so now I'm stewing about how pissed off I am. What do you PS'ers think? Do I have the right to be angry about this, or is it my own fault for telling him that if it was so urgent they should just leave without me. I don't know if my judgement is clouded because I have hurt feelings about being ditched, or if it really is as rude as I think. Objective opinions please.