cantwait4life
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jun 3, 2008
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I''m having a huge issue and don''t know what to do. I love my future husband dearly. The problem is that he makes less than $10 an hour while I make $65K a year and my salary will always increase per year. It''s not me making more than him that bothers me. It''s why he makes less. You see, he smokes and I don''t mean cigarettes. I''ve tried to get him to stop and he can''t. As a result he can''t apply for another job. I''ve urged him to go to school because it seems like the only way that he will be able to make a decent living but I can''t hold his hand through the process.
Please understand that I love him very much and besides the money/smoking issue, he is the most incredible person I''ve ever met. But can I really be with someone that makes so much less? Do you think I can still get a house and raise children with the money that we make? I''m so worried that all of my dreams (the house, the kids) will have to change because of this.