Hi, ladies! I''m already married (we eloped to JOP a few months ago)but I''m tentatively planning a vow-renewal for next year. My dad has generously offerred to pay for the whole shindig for 100 ppl (20 from my side/ 80 from DH) and a budget of 10k. My problem is that I''ve been looking forward to this since we got engaged, but it doesn''t seem as important or worth the money since the birth of our DD. Dad said if I spend the balance on a wedding it wouldnt go to other means of assistance (nothing in particular), but it''s not like he''d hand us a large sum if I cancelled it since he''d be making payments on the balance. I want the wedding experience, a celebration of us, and I''m pretty sure I''ll regret it in the long run if we dont'' have it.
The date is for next fall and we''ve only put down one $500 deposit.
What would you do?
Why is having a wedding important to you?
The date is for next fall and we''ve only put down one $500 deposit.
What would you do?
Why is having a wedding important to you?