Diamond Confused
Shiny_Rock
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- Jan 14, 2008
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A friend of mine is getting married in July. The bride asked me to be in her wedding party but I told her I won''t be able to go to her wedding b/c my FIs parents are renewing their vows in Hawaii so I''ll be out of town.
Anyway... her MOH is in the process of planning her bachelorette party. For some reason she has been cc''ing me on all her planning related emails and has been asking me for ideas. Today I got a text message from her saying that I need to let her know if I''m planning the bridal shower otherwise she''ll have to do it herself. I''m not really sure why she got it in her head that I''d be planning anything. I don''t want to be a bad friend but I''m not in the position to host parties and the MOH knows it. I am in school full time and my FI pays all my expenses so it''s not like I am going to ask him for money to host a bridal party! Not to mention, finals are coming up and I''m planning my own wedding. Free time is something I just don''t have right now. The way she worded the text made me so angry.
How should I reply? And also, am I supposed to help plan this stuff?
Anyway... her MOH is in the process of planning her bachelorette party. For some reason she has been cc''ing me on all her planning related emails and has been asking me for ideas. Today I got a text message from her saying that I need to let her know if I''m planning the bridal shower otherwise she''ll have to do it herself. I''m not really sure why she got it in her head that I''d be planning anything. I don''t want to be a bad friend but I''m not in the position to host parties and the MOH knows it. I am in school full time and my FI pays all my expenses so it''s not like I am going to ask him for money to host a bridal party! Not to mention, finals are coming up and I''m planning my own wedding. Free time is something I just don''t have right now. The way she worded the text made me so angry.
How should I reply? And also, am I supposed to help plan this stuff?