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Rough_Rock
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Hi folks, I'm a long-time lurker finally coming out of the shadows. 
Some back-ground: When my hubby and I got married in '09, I was under the impression that I didn't like diamonds, and it seemed pointless to me to spend money on an e-ring that I wouldn't enjoy. We picked out a vintage wedding band at the local antique shop and that was that! At some point about a year later, I wound up stumbling on the PS forums for some reason or other. And lo and behold, I fell in love with antique cuts!! Turns out that I don't really dislike diamonds, only modern-cut diamonds.
I have been drooling over AVCs and AVRs ever since. (I love actual antique diamonds too, but frankly I just don't want the hassle of worrying about fragile girdles and being limited to bezel settings etc, so the GoG cuts are the perfect solution for me)
In 2013 we decided to finally get me a ring with an AVC or AVR for our 5th anniversary in 2014. We'd originally planned to get something in the 0.6-0.8ct range, but this summer/fall we decided to pursue IVF or adoption, and shortly after that our young kitty became very sick and needed extensive emergency care and testing (she is doing alright now thankfully, but she has severe asthma and a heart condition that will need continued medication and testing). After that it just didn't make sense to spend so much on a diamond, but we still wanted to put something shiny on my finger.
I kind of despaired for a while there, because there was nothing even close to our new price-point that I liked the look of. Then...I noticed the AVC/AVR melee sections (mwahahaha
). So I hunted in the melee sections for a shiny that would work with our chopped budget, and wasn't disappointed!
We may or may not upgrade to something in our original size range in a few years, but who knows what the future holds!
Here are the link and stats:
http://www.goodoldgold.com/diamond/F46-0960/
0.37ct
H
VS2
4.29 × 4.15 × 2.8 mm

I just love the soft square shape and big chunky facets!! Modern cuts just don't do it like that! We have it here at home because we were deciding between the AVC and an AVR (talk about a hard decision, oh my gosh!!!).
If we choose a setting that GOG can order and set, we'll send it back to them for that. For reference, my finger is a 5.5, but I take a ring size 5.75 or 6 due to large knuckles.
SO now I've been agonizing for a couple weeks over how to set this little lady. I know many of you will recommend getting a super-cheap setting and spending the extra on a bigger stone, but for one they haven't had anything with stats I like in the higher price point since we started seriously looking in October. Plus I have a very picky eye and appreciate good quality...I think a cheap temporary setting would really grate on me, especially since we don't know when or if we'll be upgrading. I'd rather be able to fully enjoy both the diamond and the setting as a complete piece in the here and now.
I'm a fairly low-key gal so something simple and sweet is more my style. I've been researching and getting in touch with vendors, and have got it narrowed down to a few options I like. The Poppyseed and Vatche settings are probably going to get culled tbh -- the quality of Poppyseed is good for a temp setting from what I've read here, but it will probably bug me; and I don't think I can justify the expense of the Vatche setting to myself when it costs a couple hundred dollars more than the diamond did. :p
I'm leaning heavily towards Option A or B, especially A...but there is some allure to BGD's quality and service. What do you think??
Option A:
Reproduction Art Deco Engagement Ring -- Setting is $825 in 14k white gold. The setting fee is $40. 3.15mm (at the top side diamond) and it tapers to 1.4mm at the back. $865 total plus shipping
http://antiqueengagementrings.com/shopping/shopexd.asp?id=4520
Option B:
Replica 1930s Engagement Ring -- Setting is $675 in 14k white gold. The setting fee is $40. 2.3mm at the top and it tapers to 1.1mm at the back. $715 total plus shipping
http://antiqueengagementrings.com/shopping/shopexd.asp?id=4895
Option C:
Classic Truth Solitaire setting, head would be crafted for cushion's dimensions. 1.8mm -2.8mm, $850 in 18k wg (unsure if they can make it in 14k gold, I forgot to ask), $75 setting fee. $925 total plus shipping
http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/e...lassic-truth-solitaire-18k-white-gold-5369w18
Option D: (this is my super-ultra-budget option, probably I wouldn't be happy with the quality though)
Solitaire setting by Poppyseed, head would be crafted to the cushion's measurements. The shank is 2.5mm tapering to about 1.8mm at the stone. $362 total including shipping
http://www.diamondbistro.com/category/196/Rings/listings/36566/Incredible-Solitaire.html
Option E: (this is the budget-splurge option, but don't think I can justify the expense of this one when I'm not super-duper-ultra in love with it)
Vatche 1503 - Serenity Collection. GOG would order and set this one. 2mm- 1.4mm. $1,120 in 14k white gold
http://dvatche.com/index.php?page=collection&catID=2,19&startRow=0&id=155
Some back-ground: When my hubby and I got married in '09, I was under the impression that I didn't like diamonds, and it seemed pointless to me to spend money on an e-ring that I wouldn't enjoy. We picked out a vintage wedding band at the local antique shop and that was that! At some point about a year later, I wound up stumbling on the PS forums for some reason or other. And lo and behold, I fell in love with antique cuts!! Turns out that I don't really dislike diamonds, only modern-cut diamonds.

In 2013 we decided to finally get me a ring with an AVC or AVR for our 5th anniversary in 2014. We'd originally planned to get something in the 0.6-0.8ct range, but this summer/fall we decided to pursue IVF or adoption, and shortly after that our young kitty became very sick and needed extensive emergency care and testing (she is doing alright now thankfully, but she has severe asthma and a heart condition that will need continued medication and testing). After that it just didn't make sense to spend so much on a diamond, but we still wanted to put something shiny on my finger.
I kind of despaired for a while there, because there was nothing even close to our new price-point that I liked the look of. Then...I noticed the AVC/AVR melee sections (mwahahaha
Here are the link and stats:
http://www.goodoldgold.com/diamond/F46-0960/
0.37ct
H
VS2
4.29 × 4.15 × 2.8 mm

I just love the soft square shape and big chunky facets!! Modern cuts just don't do it like that! We have it here at home because we were deciding between the AVC and an AVR (talk about a hard decision, oh my gosh!!!).
SO now I've been agonizing for a couple weeks over how to set this little lady. I know many of you will recommend getting a super-cheap setting and spending the extra on a bigger stone, but for one they haven't had anything with stats I like in the higher price point since we started seriously looking in October. Plus I have a very picky eye and appreciate good quality...I think a cheap temporary setting would really grate on me, especially since we don't know when or if we'll be upgrading. I'd rather be able to fully enjoy both the diamond and the setting as a complete piece in the here and now.
I'm a fairly low-key gal so something simple and sweet is more my style. I've been researching and getting in touch with vendors, and have got it narrowed down to a few options I like. The Poppyseed and Vatche settings are probably going to get culled tbh -- the quality of Poppyseed is good for a temp setting from what I've read here, but it will probably bug me; and I don't think I can justify the expense of the Vatche setting to myself when it costs a couple hundred dollars more than the diamond did. :p
I'm leaning heavily towards Option A or B, especially A...but there is some allure to BGD's quality and service. What do you think??
Option A:
Reproduction Art Deco Engagement Ring -- Setting is $825 in 14k white gold. The setting fee is $40. 3.15mm (at the top side diamond) and it tapers to 1.4mm at the back. $865 total plus shipping
http://antiqueengagementrings.com/shopping/shopexd.asp?id=4520
Option B:
Replica 1930s Engagement Ring -- Setting is $675 in 14k white gold. The setting fee is $40. 2.3mm at the top and it tapers to 1.1mm at the back. $715 total plus shipping
http://antiqueengagementrings.com/shopping/shopexd.asp?id=4895
Option C:
Classic Truth Solitaire setting, head would be crafted for cushion's dimensions. 1.8mm -2.8mm, $850 in 18k wg (unsure if they can make it in 14k gold, I forgot to ask), $75 setting fee. $925 total plus shipping
http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/e...lassic-truth-solitaire-18k-white-gold-5369w18
Option D: (this is my super-ultra-budget option, probably I wouldn't be happy with the quality though)
Solitaire setting by Poppyseed, head would be crafted to the cushion's measurements. The shank is 2.5mm tapering to about 1.8mm at the stone. $362 total including shipping
http://www.diamondbistro.com/category/196/Rings/listings/36566/Incredible-Solitaire.html
Option E: (this is the budget-splurge option, but don't think I can justify the expense of this one when I'm not super-duper-ultra in love with it)
Vatche 1503 - Serenity Collection. GOG would order and set this one. 2mm- 1.4mm. $1,120 in 14k white gold
http://dvatche.com/index.php?page=collection&catID=2,19&startRow=0&id=155