1stdiamondbuy
Rough_Rock
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- May 11, 2005
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OK, the custom ring should be ready in the next couple of days. Here are some of the factors I am thinking about ....
1. I wanted the ring to be a total surprise, but decided I couldn''t pick a setting without input. I was going to have her narrow it down and then pick one, but we got into a store and got into details about a custom setting so there was no backing out. She knows what the design is supposed to look like, but hasn''t seen the completed setting.
2. She has a pretty good idea that the ring should be done in the next couple of days.
3. Our families are about 2.5 hrs away. We will be there this weekend for Father''s Day. We will also be there the weekends of 7/16 (my sister''s wedding) and 7/23 (a friend of mine''s wedding ... a girl I dated 10 years ago).
4. I''d like to talk to her father before I propose.
5. I''d like to be able to be with our families right after the proposal.
OK ... with all of that in mind, what is the right time? I was thinking about trying to talk to her dad this Saturday, propose Saturday evening. My second thoughts on that are that I don''t want to conflict too much with Father''s Day, her dad and brother are going out of town to a baseball game on Sunday, and I''d like to have some element of surprise (keep her waiting a bit since she knows the ring is done this week).
I think proposing the weekend of my sister''s wedding would be bad (is this weekend, 4 weeks before, even infringing on her weekend?). The weekend of 7/23 is already a bit awkward and I don''t really want to add to that. It will almost look like (to some people) that since this girl I dated a long time ago is getting married and I can''t have her, then I will go ahead and propose to somebody else. That is absolutely not the case, but I don''t want our proposal date to be my ex''s wedding date.
Another option would be around 8/21 ... a Jimmy Buffett concert. We started dating after hanging out at a Jimmy concert last year. I just wonder if that is making her wait too long. And logistics could get a little sticky because I know she wouldn''t want something in public. Plus we probably wouldn''t see our families until 2 weeks later.
OK, I realize that is quite long and rambling ... but if somebody can offer some insight into why one of those weekends makes perfect sense, you would make my day. Thanks.
1. I wanted the ring to be a total surprise, but decided I couldn''t pick a setting without input. I was going to have her narrow it down and then pick one, but we got into a store and got into details about a custom setting so there was no backing out. She knows what the design is supposed to look like, but hasn''t seen the completed setting.
2. She has a pretty good idea that the ring should be done in the next couple of days.
3. Our families are about 2.5 hrs away. We will be there this weekend for Father''s Day. We will also be there the weekends of 7/16 (my sister''s wedding) and 7/23 (a friend of mine''s wedding ... a girl I dated 10 years ago).
4. I''d like to talk to her father before I propose.
5. I''d like to be able to be with our families right after the proposal.
OK ... with all of that in mind, what is the right time? I was thinking about trying to talk to her dad this Saturday, propose Saturday evening. My second thoughts on that are that I don''t want to conflict too much with Father''s Day, her dad and brother are going out of town to a baseball game on Sunday, and I''d like to have some element of surprise (keep her waiting a bit since she knows the ring is done this week).
I think proposing the weekend of my sister''s wedding would be bad (is this weekend, 4 weeks before, even infringing on her weekend?). The weekend of 7/23 is already a bit awkward and I don''t really want to add to that. It will almost look like (to some people) that since this girl I dated a long time ago is getting married and I can''t have her, then I will go ahead and propose to somebody else. That is absolutely not the case, but I don''t want our proposal date to be my ex''s wedding date.
Another option would be around 8/21 ... a Jimmy Buffett concert. We started dating after hanging out at a Jimmy concert last year. I just wonder if that is making her wait too long. And logistics could get a little sticky because I know she wouldn''t want something in public. Plus we probably wouldn''t see our families until 2 weeks later.
OK, I realize that is quite long and rambling ... but if somebody can offer some insight into why one of those weekends makes perfect sense, you would make my day. Thanks.