Jas12
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Looking for some input this morning
One of my good childhood friends has just lost her sister to cancer (breast brain and lung cancer). She was only 30 years old and in perfect health until developing breast cancer 2 years ago. The breast cancer was ''apparently'' in remission, only to reappear along with spots on the lung/brain. She was given just 2 months to live but actually lived for most of the year. Luckily she got to spend her last months at her cottage in our home-town surrounded by nature, home-cooking, her partner and her family.
I feel just devestated for my friend, I have offered my support but she is obviously just taking time with her family at this point--I don''t want to just send a bouquet of flowers since we are much closer than that--but buying a ''gift'' seems silly as well. I was thinking maybe a memory book/box for her to assemble when the time is right, but i am afraid that may be too intense right now??
Has anyone else experienced the loss of a close relative/friend and was there something someone did for you that stood out or was really appreciated??
One of my good childhood friends has just lost her sister to cancer (breast brain and lung cancer). She was only 30 years old and in perfect health until developing breast cancer 2 years ago. The breast cancer was ''apparently'' in remission, only to reappear along with spots on the lung/brain. She was given just 2 months to live but actually lived for most of the year. Luckily she got to spend her last months at her cottage in our home-town surrounded by nature, home-cooking, her partner and her family.
I feel just devestated for my friend, I have offered my support but she is obviously just taking time with her family at this point--I don''t want to just send a bouquet of flowers since we are much closer than that--but buying a ''gift'' seems silly as well. I was thinking maybe a memory book/box for her to assemble when the time is right, but i am afraid that may be too intense right now??
Has anyone else experienced the loss of a close relative/friend and was there something someone did for you that stood out or was really appreciated??