I'm considering a five stone for our upcoming anniversary. Strange as it seems, I've had trouble finding sizable ones to try where I live. I would wear the ring as a stand alone ring. I would like it to look substantial, but not too over the top as it will be my everyday ring. I also don't want it to spread too wide that I can't close my fingers. Would a 1 or 1.25 ctw be a good size to cover the top of my finger? I also love the look of a custom graduated ring Whiteflash made that had .2, .3, .4, .3, and .2 stones but wonder if this would be way too big! Any suggestions??