Alybetter
Brilliant_Rock
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We cut the whole cost out by getting courthouse married. We took all that money we saved on wedding costs and used it to make a sizeable payment on our first house.
We had a lovely celebration with family up in the mountains.
I used to sell wedding packages at a beachfront resort and, after seeing all the expense, I sort of became dead set against it all, (for myself). Since my husband is a bonafide miser and lives a monk-like existence, he wholeheartedly agreed.
That said, I would cut band, cake, I would do my own minimalist centerpieces, and the whole thing would be laid back. Buffet, not plated. I would eschew the entire attire ideals as well, comfortable clothes, beach party type of thing.
We had a lovely celebration with family up in the mountains.
I used to sell wedding packages at a beachfront resort and, after seeing all the expense, I sort of became dead set against it all, (for myself). Since my husband is a bonafide miser and lives a monk-like existence, he wholeheartedly agreed.
That said, I would cut band, cake, I would do my own minimalist centerpieces, and the whole thing would be laid back. Buffet, not plated. I would eschew the entire attire ideals as well, comfortable clothes, beach party type of thing.