What is the state of your union?

[missydebby]

all my love Gemgirl.

 

[tigian]

Date: 6/9/2010 11:47:27 AM
Author: geckodani
Happy and committed.


This does not mean that I don''t have those,Honey-I-love-you-but-hold-still-so-I-can-strangle-you moments.

Yup!

 

[Amethyste]

I am really happy and we are committed to each other...

I am though, upset at his parents - they babied him for so long that he is a little clueless about what "being on your own" really means...

 

[Indylady]

Happy and committed!

 

[Dreamer_D]

Gemgirl I am so sorry for your terrible scary experience and so glad you are ok! But I am happy it brought you closer to your hubby. A silver lining perhaps? Or at least an unepected gift.

 

[Amethyste]

>LOADS< of HUGS for you Gemgirl...

 

[waxing lyrical]

Date: 6/8/2010 10:28:32 PM
Author: junebug17
This was a little hard for me, I waffled between ''happy and committed'' and ''neutral and committed''. It''s nothing specific, my husband''s a great guy and we don''t have any major issues between us that are causing problems or unhappiness. I think I''m going through a bout of depression that is carrying over to other areas of my life. I finally decided on ''happy and committed'' because he does bring happiness into my life with his support and love, but even so, I still feel a little empty inside sometimes.

Same here.

 

[Bleed Burnt Orange]

Happy and committed since day 1. Almost 5 years ago.

 

[sctsbride09]

Happy and committed.

 

[monkeyprincess]

We''re getting married in less than two months, so I better be happy and committed Honestly though, the stress of wedding planning, getting ready to move into his place, and ending one job and preparing for a new one all at the same time is taking its toll on me. Lucky for me he has been incredibly supportive and put up with my moodiness. I feel pretty lucky.

 

[April20]

I''m extremely happy and committed. We have a great relationship that hasn''t ever felt like "work" though there are definitley things we do to make sure our relationship is continually improving and not just coasting.

 

[Rhea]

I am Happy and Unsure in my relationship right now.

Currently we are communicating and solving problems in a way that seems to satisfy us both. However, there are some issues that have been around for a long time (involving jobs, money, and commutes) that have the potential to undermine our relationship in the long-run if they aren''t fixed. They have in the past but after some re-thinking, counselling, and better communication I have the patience to deal with them in the short-term. I make no promises about the long-term as these issues not being sorted eventually makes me feel unloved, unimportant, and angry.

 

[ksinger]

Happy and commited. After 30+ years of repeated attempts and apart-ness, we finally figured it out and are in it to the end. No other option, and we both know it. There are no more re-dos, no more overs: this is IT. The deep satisfaction and relief of finding each other again before it was too late, is like a constant glow over the whole relationship. We''ve been back together this go-round for almost 4 years now, and it hasn''t faded at all.

 

[GliderPoss]

Happy and committed but it hasn''t always been that way. As in all marraiges, we seem to have had plenty of bumps along the road where I''ve felt unhappy or unsure of our future but thankfully it always seems to end well. Love him to pieces