Play video games. I do it as a mindless zen activity that reduces my stress, but DH doesn't understand it that way. It can be 1-2 hours a day. Usually before bed.
Well, besides buying jewelry.........
Every morning I make a pot of chai from loose tea, milk and chai masala from the Indian Market. I make sure I never run out.
I sit and sip it in peace before DH wakes up. It's the only food/drink I don't share with him.
For me only!
What kind of research?contribute to scientific research
What kind of research?
Besides jewelry, I have been seeing the same trainer since 2007. She's helped me get through so many different physical challenges, I love her to pieces!
@bludiva , We have membership to the Y for swimming & I guess I've felt the expenditure for my trainer was 'selfish' as I could always go to the Y to work out.that does not sound at all selfish!
mine is reading, i'll get engrossed in a book or long read and lost track of time...
I think selfishness gets a bad rap.
Of course too much is bad, but taking good care of yourSELF is an important part of a balanced and healthy life.
Like a lot of other PSers, collecting jewelry is definitely the most selfish thing I do.
If we can exclude that...it’s taking baths. I usually take a bath 3-4 times a week. I can literally sit in there for 2 hours, no problem. I use a spare bedroom to store all my Lush bath bombs. Yup, definitely my favorite selfish habit.
I'm the baker in the family. My son, husband, siblings, grandmother, autiees, uncles, friends, etc. absolutely luv my baking, shucks, even strangers. I just make Pies, pound cakes, cookies, etc. Nothing fancy.
Of course the fall is apple orchard season and every year I bake deserts apple pies and crisps and give them the family and friends.
This year I was selfish.
Went to the apple orchard end of september/ beginning october. bought 5 bushels of McIntosh apples. Perfectly made an apple crisp every 2-3 days until all of the Apple were gone. I ate everyone of those crisps myself
For about 4 weeks i was in apple crisp heaven!!! i didn't tell my son , my sis...nobody. Hubby is not into sweets so my executed plan was PERFECT! I made them. They were absolute deliciousness. I refused to share. . . Man!!! It felt good!!!
that does not sound at all selfish!
mine is reading, i'll get engrossed in a book or long read and lost track of time...
Besides jewelry, I have been seeing the same trainer since 2007. She's helped me get through so many different physical challenges, I love her to pieces!