njuneardave
Rough_Rock
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- Jan 16, 2005
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Hey, okay its my first post here, and i enjoy just reading around at everyone's opinions and such...so i figured i would run my proposal idea by you guys and see what you think.
heres some background: im 21, in college, studying computer engineering. My girlfriend of 2 mths (yes months) is 25 yrs old, and a teacher at a h.s. in my town. i am an associate youth pastor at my church, and we are both very Christianly ppl who love God with all of our hearts. I made a vow last summer (before I knew Jennifer) that I would not kiss another girl until my wedding day. I did this to consecrate myself to God (because I struggled with sexual purity in the past before I became Christian) and to ensure that my relationship with my wife would be based on best-friendship rather than physical aspects (i am a strong believer that physical relationships will at some point in time fizzle out and have nothing to fall back on but emotional relationships are much more lasting). i have stayed true to this covenant even though it has been very hard. so yeah, we have only been dating 2 months but we both know that we are meant to be together. I've prayed and prayed about it (as has she) and we talk about marriage every day we are together. I know she is the one for me..so I don't have a problem after 2 months thinking about spending the rest of my life with her....when ya know, ya know.....ya know? anyway here is my idea:
jennifer loves "Willowtree" figurine collectibles ... if you havent heard of them, they are little carved sculptures that depict life events. she collects them. teaching is a huge part of her life - she loves her kids and she loves teaching them (she teaches 9th and 10th grade physical science and biology). she is a BIT on the shy side, so this proposal might shock her. so here goes: i was thinking about proposing to her at the next upcoming school pep-rally on march 1st. i would sneak into the pep rally (for the regional basketball tournament) and after it is over the principal (who i already met with and confirmed we could do this) will get on the mic and invite Jennifer and her dad down to the floor (her dad is also a teacher at the school). The principal will say something along the lines of wanting to show appreciation to the family service they have shown and would then give her dad a wrapped gift. In that box (which her father will already know what it contains) will be a wood carving of a woman standing still with her hands out that i will carve myself. when he opens it, he will give it to her...she will be a bit confused im sure. then after she sees it, i will come out of hiding and in my hand i will have another carving that i will have carved of a man on one knee. The two carvings will fit together to show a proposal scene. i will walk out and give it to her father and then in front of the entire 2,000 students get one on knee and propose to her. i will prob. unintentionally cry cuz i do that alot =P. then all of the student body will clap and cheer. well thats my idea... oh and something else im thinking of...this is a bit corny and goofy...but that describes 1/2 my personality (goofy) in a nutshell: i was going to MAYBE (tell me what you think) dress up as a knight in armor b/c she has a big thing about her being my princess and how i always treat her like a lady. anyway, we are big family ppl, and all of our family would be there to witness the proposal too.
so i know that is long, but tell me if it is good or not. if not, she also loves the outdoors...so if you could think of a good alternative idea, itd be a help....
THANKS!!!
*edit* oh, and for you diamond connoiseurs, the ring i have picked out is a tiffany-setting 4 prong, 1 ct, F color, SI-1 clarity, PRINCESS (cuz she is my princess) cut diamond in 14k white gold. she said she doesnt like side diamonds or anything b/c it takes away from the main diamond. so yeah, thats the ring
heres some background: im 21, in college, studying computer engineering. My girlfriend of 2 mths (yes months) is 25 yrs old, and a teacher at a h.s. in my town. i am an associate youth pastor at my church, and we are both very Christianly ppl who love God with all of our hearts. I made a vow last summer (before I knew Jennifer) that I would not kiss another girl until my wedding day. I did this to consecrate myself to God (because I struggled with sexual purity in the past before I became Christian) and to ensure that my relationship with my wife would be based on best-friendship rather than physical aspects (i am a strong believer that physical relationships will at some point in time fizzle out and have nothing to fall back on but emotional relationships are much more lasting). i have stayed true to this covenant even though it has been very hard. so yeah, we have only been dating 2 months but we both know that we are meant to be together. I've prayed and prayed about it (as has she) and we talk about marriage every day we are together. I know she is the one for me..so I don't have a problem after 2 months thinking about spending the rest of my life with her....when ya know, ya know.....ya know? anyway here is my idea:
jennifer loves "Willowtree" figurine collectibles ... if you havent heard of them, they are little carved sculptures that depict life events. she collects them. teaching is a huge part of her life - she loves her kids and she loves teaching them (she teaches 9th and 10th grade physical science and biology). she is a BIT on the shy side, so this proposal might shock her. so here goes: i was thinking about proposing to her at the next upcoming school pep-rally on march 1st. i would sneak into the pep rally (for the regional basketball tournament) and after it is over the principal (who i already met with and confirmed we could do this) will get on the mic and invite Jennifer and her dad down to the floor (her dad is also a teacher at the school). The principal will say something along the lines of wanting to show appreciation to the family service they have shown and would then give her dad a wrapped gift. In that box (which her father will already know what it contains) will be a wood carving of a woman standing still with her hands out that i will carve myself. when he opens it, he will give it to her...she will be a bit confused im sure. then after she sees it, i will come out of hiding and in my hand i will have another carving that i will have carved of a man on one knee. The two carvings will fit together to show a proposal scene. i will walk out and give it to her father and then in front of the entire 2,000 students get one on knee and propose to her. i will prob. unintentionally cry cuz i do that alot =P. then all of the student body will clap and cheer. well thats my idea... oh and something else im thinking of...this is a bit corny and goofy...but that describes 1/2 my personality (goofy) in a nutshell: i was going to MAYBE (tell me what you think) dress up as a knight in armor b/c she has a big thing about her being my princess and how i always treat her like a lady. anyway, we are big family ppl, and all of our family would be there to witness the proposal too.
so i know that is long, but tell me if it is good or not. if not, she also loves the outdoors...so if you could think of a good alternative idea, itd be a help....
THANKS!!!
*edit* oh, and for you diamond connoiseurs, the ring i have picked out is a tiffany-setting 4 prong, 1 ct, F color, SI-1 clarity, PRINCESS (cuz she is my princess) cut diamond in 14k white gold. she said she doesnt like side diamonds or anything b/c it takes away from the main diamond. so yeah, thats the ring