SarahLovesJS
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Okay, so many of you know the never-ending FI''s friends drama. If you''re not, well we''ll just leave it at that there''s been a lot of tension between FI and his friends within the last 8 months or so. Anyway, this is my question, what can I do about who he picks as groomsmen? Okay, so I know it''s not my place to tell him who to pick and I have not done that. I know it''s his decision, but if he asks for my opinion should I really give it to him or just tell him to do what''s best? Because we''ve talked about this and always seem up ending saying we''ll decide eventually. I know we have plenty of time, but I am mortified to have some of these people even coming to my wedding much less be in it. Do you stand by and let someone get walked over, or intervene but potentially be resented or considered a controlling woman? Heh, they already suddenly decided they didn''t like me so I guess the second option doesn''t really matter.
Any advice? Did anyone deal with this? Did you even invite the mean guys to the wedding? If you want to hear the long drawn out drama update, let me know. But I really don''t think you do.