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AGBF|1374006778|3484208 said:
ksinger|1374008340|3484226 said:AGBF|1374006778|3484208 said:ksinger|1374006561|3484205 said:Well, ME, of course.![]()
Actually, it is I.
I tend to write as I speak, and I challenge you to say "I" in my statement above, and not sound hopelessly priggish.
AGBF|1374008773|3484232 said:ksinger|1374008340|3484226 said:AGBF|1374006778|3484208 said:ksinger|1374006561|3484205 said:Well, ME, of course.![]()
Actually, it is I.
I tend to write as I speak, and I challenge you to say "I" in my statement above, and not sound hopelessly priggish.
Uh...sticks and stone will breaks my bones, but....
I do say, "It is I " and "It is she". I would have said, "I" above; and if you insist on calling me "priggish" I will have to live with it.
Deb
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ksinger|1374009056|3484237 said:AGBF|1374008773|3484232 said:ksinger|1374008340|3484226 said:AGBF|1374006778|3484208 said:ksinger|1374006561|3484205 said:Well, ME, of course.![]()
Actually, it is I.
I tend to write as I speak, and I challenge you to say "I" in my statement above, and not sound hopelessly priggish.
Uh...sticks and stone will breaks my bones, but....
I do say, "It is I " and "It is she". I would have said, "I" above; and if you insist on calling me "priggish" I will have to live with it.
Deb
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Alas, the dangers of correcting someone's English in a public forum.
peacechick|1373949077|3483784 said:Smith1942|1373939099|3483685 said:I'm sorry for not understanding, but you have to understand that this hijacked, beaten-up, mangled-beyond-repair version of English that you insist on calling English is a form of the language that I have never encountered in 32 years of living in the British Isles. I literally have no idea what most people are talking about on this continent, so I have limited ability to understand, well, anything here.
Let's be fair! Just because American English has developed differently doesn't mean it's mangled. I had also never heard of the term "cracker" until recently, so it was very fascinating to learn about the etymology.
Brits also have their own terms that are virtually gibberish to people overseas. Some examples? "Fit", "toff", "yob", "Chav", "stroppy" etc. I just happen to know a bunch of them as I read the Daily Mail as a guilty pleasure.
So do the Aussies, the Canadians, the Indians, and the ex-Brit colonies. English belongs to all of us, and in the end, we should remember it was a big hodge-lodge to begin with, cobbled together from Old Norse, Anglo-Saxon, Latin, French, German vocabulary.
I am neither American or Englishbut English is my first language and I enjoy it in all its forms.
Excuse me for this detour from the Zimmerman case! If I have anything to add, it's only to say that the problem of crime, safety and race is very complex in the States. I have had friends visiting me in Canada who felt totally safe roaming the city at night and then felt very unsafe after crossing the border to American cities. If people don't feel sale in their own neighborhoods, I think it is very hard to say ban guns or to tell them not to take action to protect their community. This was a great tragedy.
CaprineSun|1374030113|3484501 said:I was livid when he was not arrested for 44 days after killing an unarmed boy HE pursued, and the boy who likely had to defend himself from him.
Dancing Fire|1374039852|3484567 said:Why must left-wingers keep on adding fuel to fire causing more violence all over our country?
Circe|1373948486|3483780 said:mrs jam said:It is heart-breaking and mind-boggling that such a very unfortunate series of events was set in motion that evening in Sanford. I was torn in my opinion of the verdict. I feel that Zimmerman should have not been following Martin in the first place, but following someone shouldn't result in having your head bashed into the pavement. Both exercised very poor judgment, but Zimmerman was the adult while Martin was only 17. At 17, many of my peers (and possibly myself) were still dispensing shaving cream on golf courses and lighting dog doo doo on porches. I thank my lucky stars that the worst consequence we ever received was the march-of-shame we had to take to our respective parents' homes when we were caught red-handed with t.p. one Halloween.
I deeply question the right to carry firearms. I'm in Texas, and both my husband and I are licensed to carry, but the only time a firearm leaves our home is whenever we take a long road trip. I truly believe that if Zimmerman had not been carrying that night, he probably would never have followed Martin in the first place. I think knowing he had access to a weapon made him feel more secure confronting someone. I'm not saying he was planning on using it; I just think that knowing its there provides a sense of security that can possibly override common sense (as in don't follow a seemingly "threatening" character on a rain evening).
Well said. I have felt more secure carrying in the past (my folks gave me a taser at 14). But in retrospect? That didn't level the playing field. It just exaggerated it in the other direction. Mrs J is right. These things should carry more weight.
AGBF|1374006778|3484208 said:
Matata|1373994729|3484079 said:Why on earth would someone want to crown their attacker? I thought crowns were for royalty. Surely it's more acceptable to gift an attacker with a concussion.Smith1942|1373991822|3484035 said:smitcompton|1373988712|3483988 said:and the victim managed to pick up something and crown the attacker with it.
I'm joking with you. I very much appreciated your pub-induced feisty evaluation of our native Manglish. The US has a labyrinthine language that is considered one of the most difficult to learn. We have so many ways to say the right/wright/rite thing.![]()
JewelFreak|1374060092|3484598 said:Hey, let's not forget that he was not an "innocent" boy by any means. He got GZ on the ground & was beating the crap out of him. His final threat was, "You're gonna die tonight M...F.." as he reached for GZ's gun; whether or not he actually was able to touch it does not mitigate the fear that must have inspired. His phone had multiple pics of guns, tweets about fights & smoking dope.
The photo with almost every article was one of TM at TWELVE years old, looking small & innocent, & of GZ after he gained 100 pounds through stress-eating after the fact, looking big & bully-ish. Attempts -- which worked, I can see, to manipulate the public's view.
Why should "walk away" not apply to TM? When asked by neighborhood watch what he was doing, why should he not be expected to say, "I'm going to my dad's house"? What's so darned hard about that?
Nothing about the kid says "innocent" to me. But people vary, as we say in the old country.![]()
--- Laurie
peacechick|1374005390|3484194 said:Smith1942|1373983947|3483905 said:English is the language of England. The dialect version of English spoken in America doesn't exist in England, so over here the language should be called American, in my view.
This isn't the thread to go into details, but seriously, the differences between the two are vast and startling. They share a small core vocabulary and some of the simpler tenses, and that's where the similarities end.
Americans are very proud to be American and got rid of as much British influence as possible, so it seems a little strange that they are happy to call their language English - I would've thought they'd have switched to calling it American a long time ago, maybe at the time of the Revolution.
Smith1942, God knows I enjoy reading your posts, but all I want to say is that English no longer only belongs to the English now but the world. Your opinion is mixed up with national pride and possessiveness but it's good to look at the other view. I know you're specifically talking about Americans, but it's a really sweeping point of view.
Sure, English does come from England but I resent it when people say that English is strictly the language of England (sure, if we're talking origins), and that other variants of English do not count as English (English is my first language. I am not white and I come from a former Brit colony, and I bristle when people tell me how well I speak English.) The English language is evolving all the time and it takes in words from other languages all the time e.g. bungalow (Indian) and typhoon (Mandarin). What used to be slang hundreds of years ago has passed into common use as well.
English is also not the only language in which language variations exist. I live in Montreal, Quebec, where the first language is French, and believe me, the French is quite different from the French spoken in France. And they've been speaking like this since the 1600s, so don't come here telling the French Canadians they're speaking a mangled form of French. Similarly, don't tell the Latin Americans and Mexicans they speak a mangled form of Spanish to the Spaniards.
All right, that's all I'm going to say on this matter. Sorry for the threadjack, folks!
P.S: Is Shakespeare the ultimate master of English? What if I want to argue that it was Chaucer?Who decides these things?
JewelFreak|1374060092|3484598 said:Hey, let's not forget that he was not an "innocent" boy by any means.
Nothing about the kid says "innocent" to me.
Smith1942|1374069960|3484658 said:AGBF|1374006778|3484208 said:ksinger|1374006561|3484205 said:Well, ME, of course.![]()
Actually, it is I.
But....sometimes "me" is correct, as in the following sentences:
"The dog followed John and me to the door" because if "John" wasn't in the sentence, you wouldn't say "The dog followed I to the door."
And:
"Rose spent the day with John and me" - same thing.
So.....I think "me" is also probably correct in the example above. See number 26 in this link: http://english.stackexchange.com/questions/1133/my-friends-and-i-vs-my-friends-and-me-vs-me-and-my-friends
AGBF|1374071659|3484680 said:JewelFreak|1374060092|3484598 said:Hey, let's not forget that he was not an "innocent" boy by any means.
Nothing about the kid says "innocent" to me.
Yes, he was innocent. He did not commit a crime as George Zimmerman thought he had. It doesn't matter if he looked innocent to you or if you liked what was on his computer. He was carrying candy and a soft drink and he couldn't walk safely in a Florida neighborhood because an older man was legally armed on property that he did not own and did not need to protect. Being armed on that land made that man a danger to the younger man who was, indeed, innocent of any criminal wrongdoing and who should have been allowed to walk freely on the land with his candy and his soft drink. The younger man should not have been stopped by an aggressor who held a weapon and had the right to use it with impunity. He was an innocent victim...of the law and the entire society.
AGBF
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Smith1942|1374071332|3484675 said:Hi! Well, it does and it doesn't belong to the world. The English of England is very, very precise and hugely complex compared to the American version. The vocabulary is significantly larger with multiple words for many things, and a full range of tenses. Americans do not use the pluperfect tense, only the simple past, for example.
Another example is the way that the American language uses one word to make do for multiple meanings. When an American says they have cleaned their room, I have no idea if they were using a bucket of soapy water and a scrubbing brush, shampooing the carpets and washing the windows, or if they were merely putting clothes and possessions away. In England, "clean" is only used to mean actually cleaning. If your clothes and possessions were strewn everywhere and needed tidying up, you've tidied your room. And to straighten up a room means that only a few things were out of place and it just took a few minutes. These usages are very precise and set in stone. I would never say I had cleaned a room if soap and water were not involved. So Americans use "clean" to mean scrubbing, tidying, and straightening. How on earth do you deduce what has actually taken place?
A prime example, is the verb "to fight". You only ever use this verb in England if punches had been thrown. If a friend of mine rang up and said she had had a fight with her husband, I'd call the police immediately, because he must have punched her. If no punches were thrown you would never say "fight" in England. You'd say that you had an argument, or you had a row, or an argy-bargy, or at least five other words to mean that you had conflict but it was verbal not physical.
When Americans say they had a fight, how on earth do you deduce whether punches were thrown or not? I cannot understand how anyone communicates with any effectiveness here because the usage is so imprecise.
Also, I cannot understand why Americans get "bring" and "take" mixed up. Again, the usage is very precise in England and these usages are ingrained at an early age. I had never heard anyone get them mixed up before coming to America. In my first job here, a colleague emailed me explaining that I should "bring the form to Lee". From that I deduced that Lee must sit right next to her, so I walked over to her with the form expecting Lee to be right there. She did not mean "bring", she meant "take the form to Lee" who sat at the other end of the office. You do say "bring the form to Lee" unless you are Lee.
And why can't people use the pluperfect tense here? "I wish I would have went there". Never in my life have I heard such a grammatical mess. The speaker means, "I wish I HAD GONE there."
And only the simple past is used here. The British use a past participle and everything!
American: "Did you eat yet?"
British: "Have you eaten yet?"
And when Americans say "Did you see Titanic?" the British response is "When?" In Britain you would only use that construction if you were talking about a specific time, like if the person had said they were going to see it that afternoon and you saw them in the evening, you would say, "Did you see it?" But if are talking about any point in time, you would say, "Have you ever seen Titanic?" Note the time marker "ever".
British English, as I said above, is extremely precise.
So, the language of England is the most complex and sophisticated form. The English dictionary is so, so much bigger than Merriam Webster because the vocabulary is very small here compared to British English.
American is a dialect version of English, It's a highly simplified version of the real thing, with local colour thrown in. So it's a dialect, and I think it should be recognised as a dialect or simply christened the American language.
Considering the Americans' pride in their independence from Britain, I'm amazed that they call it English at all. I would have thought they'd have given up calling it English at the time of the Revolution and proudly batted on in terms of developing their own American language - which they did. I just don't understand why it isn't called American.
But a very frightening reality to me is what I learned in several self-defense classes as well as training classes for a handgun permit -- always shoot to kill. You never want to wound. When I asked why this was so, I was told "never leave an alleged perp as a witness" "always embellish to the police and say that the alleged perp threatened your life" (whether this is the truth or not). Every instructor I've had said that leaving an attacker alive only means you get sued by that person and the victim usually loses. I found it disheartening because in the calm cool rational moment, I can't ever imagine shooting to kill. That is not to say that I wouldn't think/feel/act differently if I were being attacked.packrat|1374079922|3484804 said:IRL, in a situation like that, you don't have the time to think well hey now, hows about I just shoot him in this here knee, cuz in the movies they always just fall to the ground and the day is saved. No. If someone is on top of you, going for your gun, that's probably the last thing you're thinking of, and you don't shoot for one of the smallest parts of a body, you shoot for mass.
Smith1942 said:However, I still wonder why Zimmerman didn't give him a disabling shot in the thigh, which you'd think would be easier than going for the chest if someone is astride you.
Matata|1374080632|3484816 said:But a very frightening reality to me is what I learned in several self-defense classes as well as training classes for a handgun permit -- always shoot to kill. You never want to wound. When I asked why this was so, I was told "never leave an alleged perp as a witness" "always embellish to the police and say that the alleged perp threatened your life" (whether this is the truth or not). Every instructor I've had said that leaving an attacker alive only means you get sued by that person and the victim usually loses. I found it disheartening because in the calm cool rational moment, I can't ever imagine shooting to kill. That is not to say that I wouldn't think/feel/act differently if I were being attacked.packrat|1374079922|3484804 said:IRL, in a situation like that, you don't have the time to think well hey now, hows about I just shoot him in this here knee, cuz in the movies they always just fall to the ground and the day is saved. No. If someone is on top of you, going for your gun, that's probably the last thing you're thinking of, and you don't shoot for one of the smallest parts of a body, you shoot for mass.
packrat|1374079922|3484804 said:'Round these parts we say "Jew eat yet?" or "Didja eat yet?" or "J'eat?" We also use "idnit" instead of "isn't it". I don't see the big deal in not always speaking in completely formal/proper grammar. "Excuse me, dear husband, but might I enquire as to your status regarding the upcoming time of luncheon? Have you partaken, or shall I proceed in preparing a repast?"
And as far as a "wounding" shot, no, as has been mentioned before. I've asked my husband (who is an officer) about things like that at various times when he tells me about his day, or when we watch the cop shows we enjoy. "Why can't they just shoot out the tires?" "why can't they just shoot the gun out of his hand?" "Why can't they just shoot him in the knee?" Nope. Basically the short answer is, this is real life, not the movies. In the movies, the bad guys are always bad shots, and the good guys are always military grade snipers. They have the benefit of a script. That's why a guy w/a mullet can do the cool shoulder roll/somersault things through a hailstorm of bullets and jump up unscathed, ready to take on 40 bad guys w/bombs and semi automatic weapons, when alls he has is a spork. IRL, in a situation like that, you don't have the time to think well hey now, hows about I just shoot him in this here knee, cuz in the movies they always just fall to the ground and the day is saved. No. If someone is on top of you, going for your gun, that's probably the last thing you're thinking of, and you don't shoot for one of the smallest parts of a body, you shoot for mass.
JewelFreak|1374080875|3484821 said:Smith1942 said:However, I still wonder why Zimmerman didn't give him a disabling shot in the thigh, which you'd think would be easier than going for the chest if someone is astride you.
How? This is one thing that made me think as I do about it. Pretend it's you, for a minute. You're flat on your back. A heavier & bigger guy sits on your stomach, leaning over you, 4" to 6" from your face (as the evidence showed), banging your head repeatedly on concrete, pounding away on your face. He has broken your nose; since you're on your back, blood drains into your mouth, nose, & throat instead of down your chin. Raise your head to find his thigh? Right into his fists? Your shirt gets pushed up in the scuffle & he sees your gun. Says, "You're gonna die tonight, m-f" & reaches toward it. It is raining. It is dark. How are you going to stop, think, get into position to point at his leg, while he's trying to grab the gun & whaling on your face? His thigh is down by your hip. His core a couple inches right above you. Picture yourself there.
Police noted at the scene that the back of GZ's shirt was wet & had grass on it; TM's was not. Pretty clear evidence of who was on top.
It is all sad, more imho as an example of what's happened to our society.
--- Laurie
P.S. The defense did not use the Stand & Defend law. It was not part of this case. They argued Self-Defense.
Matata|1374080632|3484816 said:But a very frightening reality to me is what I learned in several self-defense classes as well as training classes for a handgun permit -- always shoot to kill. You never want to wound. When I asked why this was so, I was told "never leave an alleged perp as a witness" "always embellish to the police and say that the alleged perp threatened your life" (whether this is the truth or not). Every instructor I've had said that leaving an attacker alive only means you get sued by that person and the victim usually loses. I found it disheartening because in the calm cool rational moment, I can't ever imagine shooting to kill. That is not to say that I wouldn't think/feel/act differently if I were being attacked.