Haven
Super_Ideal_Rock
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Hi, Everyone,
So the ering is STILL not ready, so technically I''m still a LIW. However, BF and I were just talking about our wedding bands, and I am embarrassed to admit that when we picked out my ering (and the intended eternity wedding band) I completely forgot about a law in our religion (Judaism) that the wedding band must be made of solid, uninterrupted metal, or, in other words: NO DIAMONDS (AND ESPECIALLY ETERNITY BANDS) ALLOWED!
This is embarrassing because my father is a member of the Jewish clergy, so I should know better!
Anyway, I have my heart set on a shared prong eternity band to go with my ering, so here is my proposal:
What do you think if we use my grandmother''s wedding band for my wedding ring during the ceremony, and then I would wear it on my right hand afterwards, and then wear my ering and a matching eternity band on my left? I love the idea of using my grandmother''s ring, we''re very close and my grandfather died thirty years ago so she no longer wears her band. Would this be strange? In the end, I''d have a wedding band that I''d wear on my right hand, and an ering and matching eternity band on my left.
Have any other Jewish brides done something like this?
So the ering is STILL not ready, so technically I''m still a LIW. However, BF and I were just talking about our wedding bands, and I am embarrassed to admit that when we picked out my ering (and the intended eternity wedding band) I completely forgot about a law in our religion (Judaism) that the wedding band must be made of solid, uninterrupted metal, or, in other words: NO DIAMONDS (AND ESPECIALLY ETERNITY BANDS) ALLOWED!
This is embarrassing because my father is a member of the Jewish clergy, so I should know better!
Anyway, I have my heart set on a shared prong eternity band to go with my ering, so here is my proposal:
What do you think if we use my grandmother''s wedding band for my wedding ring during the ceremony, and then I would wear it on my right hand afterwards, and then wear my ering and a matching eternity band on my left? I love the idea of using my grandmother''s ring, we''re very close and my grandfather died thirty years ago so she no longer wears her band. Would this be strange? In the end, I''d have a wedding band that I''d wear on my right hand, and an ering and matching eternity band on my left.
Have any other Jewish brides done something like this?