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rainbowtrout

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No, you may not wear a floor length black dress and knee high black boots as my MOH
No, I'm sorry heels really would cripple you for a week. You still can't wear the boots. What about sandals? I'm sorry you have to buy shoes. Really.
No, I do not have sympathy that it was SO HARD for you to find a dress THIS WEEK you liked in any of the three colors (black or purple or green) and three length choices (knee or tea or ankle) and four fabric choices I gave you SIX MONTHS AGO. News flash, the wedding is in two weeks, and you're in it!
No, you may not wear a jean jacket with your black dress, Mom (I don't know why you are wearing black anyway)
No, when we said "medium grey suit" we didn't mean "tuxedo" or "navy" or "yellow." I'm sorry your mom bought you suits in a color similar to what we asked for...I'm sorry she doesn't want to buy you another suit in a different color....sigh.
No, grandmother, I love you, but could you not wear a white dress to my wedding.
No, roommate, you either.


Further, can you all stop complaining!!!!!!!!
 
Boots, but not heels? Flat boots, like riding boots?
 
ah.... there, there Rainbow.... there, there.... (patting you on the back)

You can make it through. Just start ignoring people now. If you have to put your hands up to your ears and scream "I CAN''T HEAR YOU!!!! LA LA LA LA LA!!!", do it!!!
 
Eeek! Hang in there!

(Boots? A denim jacket? Really?)

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She has ankle problems. Apparently boots with a heel provide enough support but something like a kitten heel is bad for them....also, she has weight issues and tends not to get that dressing in a burkha doesn''t make it look better.


Ha, thanks Sumbride. I''m trying. My approach with the jean jacket thing today was ''Well you are the one walking in front of all those people. You know what, in the long run they are looking at you in that jacket, not me.''
 
My sympathies and huge hugs honey!
 
OMG, what is it about weddings that makes people INSANE?

I would want to scream. Really, it is beyond normal that people behave like this.
 
Thank you!

Really I think if I had not tried to be accomadating eight months ago and had just picked out X dress and Y suit for people, maybe they would have been more compliant, who knows...they seem to have issues with the whole "appropriate choices" shtick.


I do not want to be writing my last 20 page paper right now!!!! I want to go to Costa Rica and see a whaleshark underwater darnit I want to do it now now NOW!


OK I''m done. (back to paper)
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oh my gosh, I''m sooo sorry you''re going through this, rainbow...

but please, I beg you, look back at your post in two months from now and maybe you''ll laugh as hard as I am right now...

at least you still have your sense of humor
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people are seriously, seriously crazy. wowza.
 
Hee...it is kind of absurd when you think about it ;-)


I just want to get married and go on the darn honeymoon already! And be done with Year One of grad school! Phooey.



I mean, clothes are clothes. It''s annoying and stressful but I try to let it slide off. Worse are things like the nightmares about my divorced parents fighting and leaving me to walk myself down the aisle alone. HOWEVER, I''m sure that won''t happen. Well, mostly sure. It''ll all be fine. Fine, I say!
 
You poor thing! I love your comment to your mom about that she will be the one wearing *that* in front of all those people at a wedding...was it implied by your tone that you thought she was nutso???

I think you should page Indy...she had some good ideas for incapacitating the crazy people at her wedding.

Try to hang in there...hugs!
 
Ha--I don''t know if she caught it, right after she asked if when I said my stepbrother was supposed to wear a medium grey suit, did I actually mean a sportcoat and Dockers? Or did I mean, you know, a SUIT? (gahhh)


I just realized I wrote my mom...the jean jacket thing was my stepmom. My mother...oy. She''s in morocco still and I don''t even know if she is coming. She has not sent us her itenerary and her communication has been wierd and spotty, I have a bad feeling that something is going on (she was sick earlier this year and she is the kind of person who just wouldn''t say anything). However on the lighter topic of clothes, she also had not bought anything at last check in!
 
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