Cehrabehra
Super_Ideal_Rock
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so my friend who started dating the dying guy is now way in over her head - she sent me an email to check out the guy's blog and I responded that I just got into beijing and cannot view certain things here including that and that I may not have a chance to for quite some time as I have only 2 days at home after this trip to prepare for going to the usa for 2 weeks and then getting the kids started on school but that I would try to at least take a look at it when I could.
so she called me on my cell phone "to talk". I told her I didn't have time because we just got to the hotel and we're going out on our onlyd ay in beijing on our own. I could tell she NEEEEDED to so I said I had 5 minutes.... then she sobbed on the phone for 45 minutes and took another 15 to compose herself. Even then I had to say I needed to go. She says I'm the only friend of hers that she can be truly herself with and I appreciate that.
I feel really bad for her that she's feeling all of these feelings of grief etc., but it was totally predictable and I find that irritating - especially when I'm a world away from her. There's really nothing I can do. She's bringing this on herself. Total crash and burn. I feel helpless.
UGH - This is all rhetorical, just needed to vent... the extra 5 minutes to blow steam for wasting an hour
so she called me on my cell phone "to talk". I told her I didn't have time because we just got to the hotel and we're going out on our onlyd ay in beijing on our own. I could tell she NEEEEDED to so I said I had 5 minutes.... then she sobbed on the phone for 45 minutes and took another 15 to compose herself. Even then I had to say I needed to go. She says I'm the only friend of hers that she can be truly herself with and I appreciate that.
I feel really bad for her that she's feeling all of these feelings of grief etc., but it was totally predictable and I find that irritating - especially when I'm a world away from her. There's really nothing I can do. She's bringing this on herself. Total crash and burn. I feel helpless.
UGH - This is all rhetorical, just needed to vent... the extra 5 minutes to blow steam for wasting an hour