aveda6
Shiny_Rock
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Hello, I have been quiet on the forum lately but I''ve been reading up on everyone''s topics. I just wanted to take a moment and vent (I apologize in advance but I really need to share). We were supposed to have dinner at my fiance''s parents house and almost immediately the topic of the wedding came up (as it should). We are planning on having our wedding in February of 2011. My fiance''s father told us today that are being selfish by having a winter wedding as no one will be able to travel to our venue due to the weather in New England. He informed us we were being selfish by not having it in the summer and that he would not only not be paying for the wedding but would not attend the wedding if it was happening in the winter. My fiance has been dreaming of a wedding in the snow since she was a child and there is no good way to meet what she would like in the summer. The conversation then spun downward from there and he told us that he was expecting us to get married in the church that her parent''s belong to. That is not happening either due to religious differences and we told that it would be a disgrace on the family if that were not to happen.
This is not my first wedding but it will be hers and I really need it to be perfect. Although I need his money to make this work I can save up to do this on our own. The issue is that this all puts her mother in the middle and she just wants us to be happy. Her father is being the aXXXXXle about all of this.....
Thank you for letting me vent and listening...I don''t know what to do next but I''d appreciate any insight...
jim
This is not my first wedding but it will be hers and I really need it to be perfect. Although I need his money to make this work I can save up to do this on our own. The issue is that this all puts her mother in the middle and she just wants us to be happy. Her father is being the aXXXXXle about all of this.....
Thank you for letting me vent and listening...I don''t know what to do next but I''d appreciate any insight...
jim