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Unusual spiral setting...thoughts? band suggestions?

Tabbycat

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Hi everyone! This is my first post to PS, although I've been lurking a little bit so I'm really excited to get your feedback because I've already seen what an awesome, supportive community this is! :wink2:

My BF has not proposed yet but he's including me on discussions of the ring design. Right now we are almost sure we have our hearts set on this setting, but since it's a big investment (and I don't plan on upgrading/changing the ring later), I just want to be as sure as possible.

I originally told him I wanted a plain band (it's an elegant classic) but I've always had a "thing" for spirals. The main reason we didn't consider a spiral ring was because they usually need a custom wedding band (not a straight band). I want to be able to wear my wedding band by itself sometimes. However, imagine our delight when we stumbled across this spiral ring, which because of the inner ring and the height of the center stone, lets a band sit snugly beside it! (Snugger than shown below - Right up against it. The middle of the band under the center stone would be obscured, but stil!!) I felt :love: :love: :love:

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My main concern is: is this true ring love, or just a ring crush? Usually I prefer clothing an accessories that are timeless (classics) or vintage, but for e-rings, this is the one that's really standing out. A spiral is considered a "modern" design. So, what's in a name? Nothing much, but the reason why I prefer timeless is because some of my tastes can change over time, but I never fall out of love with timeless pieces. I really don't want to fall out of love with my engagement ring!

In other words, do you think this ring style has a "faddish" or "youthful" quality to it, one I might no longer appreciate at 40, 50, 60, 70 years of age? What are your general thoughts on this setting? Be harsh - we haven't committed yet!

Second question (I hope this post is no too long!), what kind of band do you think could go well with this ring, besides a plain or pave one like shown? I was thinking of a thin(~2.5mm), 3D carved band, sort of a Van Craeynest style for anyone familiar with that brand (vintage/art deco). A design of leaves or braids, maybe with periodic tiny diamond accents (or maybe just carved metal). Could art deco carvings like that really go with this sort of "modern" design ring? What do you think, does that sound clashy to you?
 
I think you could potentially still enjoy this ring 20-30-40 years down the road, it depends how it looks on your finger. If it seems to fit just perfectly, it could work over the years, in my opinion. I think you'd really have to try it on and see.

As for matching it with a carved metal band, I don't think that would work too well (but again, this is only my opinion and tastes). The styles are too different.
 
Thanks for your reply! I'm glad that it doesn't seem like it would necessarily look dated to you :)

Anyone else care to give their feedback?

PS: That was meant to be a smile, not a wink, in the beginning of my first post. Whoops!
 
I say go for it! You said you've always had a thing for spirals, and this one is nicely designed and the spiral is subtle (and it's great that you can wear a plain band with it!). You never know what you'll like in 30 or 40 years, so go with what you think you'll love now and into the foreseeable future.
 
I picked out a spiral design for my 25th anniversary upgrade diamond ring, which was 11 years ago, so the design is not all that new. It should stay fresh looking for many years, since it probably won't become wildly popular. I particularly like how this particular ring can be worn with a wedding band. I didn't even try to do that with my ring.

On the other hand, I can almost guarantee that you won't be wearing this ring in 40 years, unless it is completely rebuilt. The metal will eventually wear through on all but the thickest metal rings. This does look like a study set. Get what you want and enjoy it!
 
I was engaged in 1984 and spirals were one of my options then, so not that much of a fad, if its been around at least 30 years!!

I feel that if you love it, its the style for you. Don't force yourself into a ring design that isn't one you love because you will be wearing it for a long time. If you have a "bummer, wish I got the other ring" feeling when you look at it, every day, for days/months/years, its going to be so disappointing for you - why be unhappy? Get the one you love and enjoy it for as long as it still makes your heart sing!

and as Flygirl says, you may very well end up upgrading/changing it over the years so why not go with what appeals to you now?

(FYI - I'm on my 3rd (well I guess its 3 & 1/2 really!) version of my ering, as are many on PS :)) )
 
I think it is a really cool design! I am young and early in my e-ring planning journey but I remember looking at "swirly" settings and really liking them but also came into the same problem as you that you would not be able to wear a straight band with it. So, I think the set you found would be a great way to go for it!
 
I really love this ring. Like the others have said, this design has been around a long time--my mom's wedding ring was (she lost it) very similar to this one and she and my dad were married in 1977!
 
Thank you for the feedback everyone!

I'm happy to hear this doesn't seem like a very "faddish" design :) I think I'm going to tell him I'm ready to make the plunge!

We still have to figure out what we'll do for our bands, but, we have a bit of time for that yet :)
 
Yeah!! good for you!! always go with what your heart tells you, then you will be happy with it.

(well, I guess there are times to go with your brain, but for your ring -heart is the one to follow!!) ;))
 
I think the spiral setting you've chosen is gorgeous and will always look good - it's simple enough that it won't look to dated or fad-ish later on.

If you do go with that setting be sure to get the wedding ring designed to go with it.
Wedding bands look similar at first glance, but actualy vary in dimensions quite a bit. Half a milimeter here or there can make a huge difference when it comes to pairing with a low profile band. Trying to find a similar wedding band from another source could be very difficult.
 
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