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Reading the updates to the story is sad... The whole thing is very sad...
I agree I think sometimes people's hearts lead instead of their heads. Rescuing a dog or raising a pup is a wonderful thing to do but you have to be able to control them. You have to keep them out of scenarios where they could hurt themselves & others.
My X's dog was a very unfriendly large lab. He constantly put that dog in situations where he should not have. Consequently the dog bit a few people. I 100% blame my X because every one of the scenarios where it happened could have been prevented. The dog was also left home alone for VERY long periods of time. He had the dog before we met. I am an animal lover, but I could not love his dog. He was mean, unfriendly, aggressive towards kids, other dogs, and just scary. He was a rescue so his history was unknown. My X also made no efforts to help his dog be a better dog. I grew up with a lab and was so sad that he was partially to blame for his dogs horrible temperament. He would get defensive & angry when I suggested he was partially to blame for his dogs behavior and he should correct his dog. There were no consequences, no intervention, no training sessions, basically nothing to help guide this dog. The dog was the boss.
This is partially why I took extra long deciding my fiance & I should have a dog. I wanted a plan in place to give her the best chance at a happy life with no extended periods of isolation, plenty of interaction with humans large & small, animals large & small, the right training which is never ending, and exercise. It is not easy and I think some just see a cute dog or puppy who needs a home and forget how much work it can be especially with larger breeds. The larger & stronger your dog is the better trained they should be.
I agree I think sometimes people's hearts lead instead of their heads. Rescuing a dog or raising a pup is a wonderful thing to do but you have to be able to control them. You have to keep them out of scenarios where they could hurt themselves & others.
My X's dog was a very unfriendly large lab. He constantly put that dog in situations where he should not have. Consequently the dog bit a few people. I 100% blame my X because every one of the scenarios where it happened could have been prevented. The dog was also left home alone for VERY long periods of time. He had the dog before we met. I am an animal lover, but I could not love his dog. He was mean, unfriendly, aggressive towards kids, other dogs, and just scary. He was a rescue so his history was unknown. My X also made no efforts to help his dog be a better dog. I grew up with a lab and was so sad that he was partially to blame for his dogs horrible temperament. He would get defensive & angry when I suggested he was partially to blame for his dogs behavior and he should correct his dog. There were no consequences, no intervention, no training sessions, basically nothing to help guide this dog. The dog was the boss.
This is partially why I took extra long deciding my fiance & I should have a dog. I wanted a plan in place to give her the best chance at a happy life with no extended periods of isolation, plenty of interaction with humans large & small, animals large & small, the right training which is never ending, and exercise. It is not easy and I think some just see a cute dog or puppy who needs a home and forget how much work it can be especially with larger breeds. The larger & stronger your dog is the better trained they should be.