My SO has been having some problems with his car lately. He went to drive to his Dad''s over the weekend which is about two and a half hours away and it broke down twice on him. After talking with the guys at the auto shop, he has decided it would be more benefical to trade in his current car (with is a 98 dodge neon) and get a newer car that is more reliable.
Well, this pretty much smashed all hopes of getting engaged by the end of August like I was hoping. SO is moving to CT for grad. school and I have told him since we first started talking about marriage a year and a half ago that I would prefer to be engaged before making any major moves. After talking about it with him, he pretty much said that it would have to wait for another two years when he graduates grad. school. The program that he will be in does not give any time to work for profit and therefore won''t be able to save up much until he''s done. He asked me if I will wait for him, and I said I would. I still plan on moving out there with him as well.
I was hoping to get married around 2011 instead of just getting proposed by then, so I''m a little depressed about it. I know I need to push the thoughts of weddings and enagements to the back of my mind for the next two years, but it''s going to be difficult. Especially since it seems like so many people I know are getting engaged and getting married. I know not to compaire myself to others, but it still hurts.
Thanks for hearing me out.
Well, this pretty much smashed all hopes of getting engaged by the end of August like I was hoping. SO is moving to CT for grad. school and I have told him since we first started talking about marriage a year and a half ago that I would prefer to be engaged before making any major moves. After talking about it with him, he pretty much said that it would have to wait for another two years when he graduates grad. school. The program that he will be in does not give any time to work for profit and therefore won''t be able to save up much until he''s done. He asked me if I will wait for him, and I said I would. I still plan on moving out there with him as well.
I was hoping to get married around 2011 instead of just getting proposed by then, so I''m a little depressed about it. I know I need to push the thoughts of weddings and enagements to the back of my mind for the next two years, but it''s going to be difficult. Especially since it seems like so many people I know are getting engaged and getting married. I know not to compaire myself to others, but it still hurts.
Thanks for hearing me out.