I have two maid of honors and my Fiance has one best man. One of my maid of honors is working out her speech as we speak (she started working on it from the time I got engaged). She was so excited, in fact, she called my mother and asked her for her input on the situation.
My other maid of honor is a very talented spoken word artist and extremely talented hula dancer. Would it be okay if I asked her to do the hula instead of a speech? When she moves, it is just beautiful and I know people will be very much in awe of her grace and talent. She has never expressed interest in giving the speech, but I know she would like to give one. However, I think our guests would appreciate watching her dance rather than being bored to death with a million speeches.
Would you be offended if you were asked not to do a speech but to a dance instead?
My other maid of honor is a very talented spoken word artist and extremely talented hula dancer. Would it be okay if I asked her to do the hula instead of a speech? When she moves, it is just beautiful and I know people will be very much in awe of her grace and talent. She has never expressed interest in giving the speech, but I know she would like to give one. However, I think our guests would appreciate watching her dance rather than being bored to death with a million speeches.
Would you be offended if you were asked not to do a speech but to a dance instead?