FrekeChild
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What do the bolded parts have anything to do with the current situation? Just curious, because I don't see the connection.Date: 2/16/2010 10:00:42 PM
Author: crasru
You know, Freke, things happen in everyone's life. Anything can happen. This woman who spontaneously adopted two kids although she planned for one, she made a great mother for both of them. Now both of them are teenagers, they love each other and their parents, and the boy's IQ is through the roof. Although the decision was totally spontaneous.
You are getting prepared to take in a dog - fine! I took the last animal in the box spontaneously - is it bad? Really, it does not matter! My second kid was totally unplanned - does it mean that we love him less? Or are less responsible? I highly doubt it.
Can someone give a cat away? Absolutely. He may do the same with the cat adopted from a shelter. The chance is the same; I think it is less for my cats because I know these people. Professionals, doctors, nurses, scientists. For a while I had this idea of calling the people who adopted my cats and finding out how the cats were doing. But it would take me a while to get their phone numbers (I moved 8 yeara ago).
Read my previous post - if people take care of all animals, cats, dogs, horses, AND all kids in their houses (I don't even want to start here) we shall end up with only no-kill shelters.
From my geropsychiatry experience I know of situations when owners died and no one could take in the pets. They had to be given to shelters. These are exceptions. And they should remain exceptions.
Although, why does all it surprise me? I heard of a doctor in old country who euthanised a baby born with Down syndrome. Of course there was absolutely no proof and all the thing was hush-hush but rumors were spreading. If this is true, why are we surprised about cats or dog in shelters? I just don't want to start the whole topic of euthanasia which is now legal in our state for fear that it might be viewed as 'political discussion'.
I have had my dogs for a year.
I read your posts, but thanks.
My point was that the longer people take to think about their decisions, the less likely they are to regret them, and potentially to take steps to negate that initial decision.
This conversation seems to be going nowhere, so I'm going to step out.