i hope this isn''t too personal, but i love your posts and i think you have a great attitude about love and life. i''m also in my mid 30''s (yikes!) and was wondering if you and FI are thinking of kids? how does it fit into your plan (or not)? I''m excited for the future but alot of thigns could potentially be crammed into 1-2 yrs..wedding, new house, furniture, moving to burbs, kids (if i''m so lucky).