Hello,
As a total noob who is under extreme pressure to provide the ring which was always promised but never given.
It is such an important thing for my parntner to have, and on the occassions that I've been to the local retail stores to have a look at rings, I have come away confused and frustrated.
I must state from the start that I do not have a lot of money to play with, and the truth be known I will probably have to borrow for it anyways. But that is not to say that I don't want any thing but the best I can afford for my long under standing partner.
I live in Adelaide Australia, and we have the usual compliment of retail jewellery stores.
I have narrowed it down to two rings that I like from two different stores in my price bracket. One is a Rand diamond ring 18ct 2 toned 43pt I VS2 set in a half bezel if that is the correct terminology Aus$3995. And the other is an HOF 50-54pt GH VS/S1 also half bezel for Aus$4699.
I gotta say that from memory the HOF certainly had the sparkle to it and seemed a lot brighter than the other, but that is really hard to say because you cannot compare these side by side.
Now of course both jewellers swear that theirs is the absolute best. With HOF they claim that because the stone is cut by hand blah blah blah, and likewise with the Rand stone they kept banging on about a Provenance Report and how much value this is worth to the ring.
Now I did come away from both shops feeling like they were trying to rip me off, and that when questioning them about why theirs is better than any other etc they just gave me their own version of why. Perhaps I'm being a bit hard on them and I do realize that they are only doing a job, but they did get very defensive obout things.
What really confuses me is coming to a forum like this to try and learn a little about my purchase. While I realize that HOF is only a brand name as is Rand, where do I truly look for purchasing my ring. There seems an overwhelming abundance of knowledge in this forum, and thats good, but where do I start. Should I give up on the local Rand or HOF purchase from here locally, because I'm sure I'm only paying for the name anyhow?
This is enough of my ramblings for the moment. I'm off to Melbourne in about three weeks time so am hoping there may be a better selection there. But I am very open to peoples input from here as well.
Many Thanks
John
PS Sorry about any spelling typos, I could not find a spell check in this forum
As a total noob who is under extreme pressure to provide the ring which was always promised but never given.
It is such an important thing for my parntner to have, and on the occassions that I've been to the local retail stores to have a look at rings, I have come away confused and frustrated.
I must state from the start that I do not have a lot of money to play with, and the truth be known I will probably have to borrow for it anyways. But that is not to say that I don't want any thing but the best I can afford for my long under standing partner.
I live in Adelaide Australia, and we have the usual compliment of retail jewellery stores.
I have narrowed it down to two rings that I like from two different stores in my price bracket. One is a Rand diamond ring 18ct 2 toned 43pt I VS2 set in a half bezel if that is the correct terminology Aus$3995. And the other is an HOF 50-54pt GH VS/S1 also half bezel for Aus$4699.
I gotta say that from memory the HOF certainly had the sparkle to it and seemed a lot brighter than the other, but that is really hard to say because you cannot compare these side by side.

Now I did come away from both shops feeling like they were trying to rip me off, and that when questioning them about why theirs is better than any other etc they just gave me their own version of why. Perhaps I'm being a bit hard on them and I do realize that they are only doing a job, but they did get very defensive obout things.
What really confuses me is coming to a forum like this to try and learn a little about my purchase. While I realize that HOF is only a brand name as is Rand, where do I truly look for purchasing my ring. There seems an overwhelming abundance of knowledge in this forum, and thats good, but where do I start. Should I give up on the local Rand or HOF purchase from here locally, because I'm sure I'm only paying for the name anyhow?
This is enough of my ramblings for the moment. I'm off to Melbourne in about three weeks time so am hoping there may be a better selection there. But I am very open to peoples input from here as well.
Many Thanks
John

PS Sorry about any spelling typos, I could not find a spell check in this forum
