I'll try to keep this brief but would really appreciate any suggestions for a toilet training issue that has arisen. My daughter is 26 months old and has been toilet trained for over 2 months. She hadn't had any accidents for quite a while. We nanny share 2 days a week with another little girl the same age. Her parents started toilet training her about a month ago but she is still wetting herself regularly when she is with the nanny and my daughter. Now my daughter has wet herself a couple of times (in circumstances where she could very easily have gone to the toilet) and when I asked her why she said because the other little girl does. I wouldn't normally be too concerned except that when I raised this with the nanny she said that in her view the other little girl isn't ready to toilet train but she has raised it gently with the mother and she wants to persist. So this could go on for a while and we are about to increase the nanny share to 3-4 days a week so the girls will be together more often.
Any ideas on what we can say/do with my daughter to help prevent her regressing? And at what point, if any, can I say to the other mother that something needs to change? I really feel for her because I know toilet training can be really hard but I am also concerned for my daughter.
Any ideas on what we can say/do with my daughter to help prevent her regressing? And at what point, if any, can I say to the other mother that something needs to change? I really feel for her because I know toilet training can be really hard but I am also concerned for my daughter.