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Tell him the sentiment behind it was lovely the piece is lovely but it isn't your style would he be bitterly upset if you swapped it for something you would wear more often. Try and state it in a way where he gets lots and lots of praise while still breaking it to him that it isn't you.
I went through years of this - jewellery I hated, a car I hated, clothing and bags I hated..... etc with my husband, years of well meaning gifts that were not my style that I really really hated - now I just buy what I like.
My DH just bought a new computer desk for my son for Christmas and come home with it today as a surprise and it's the most hideous thing that doesn't match anything in our house..... *sigh*
Breaking it really gently and as nicely a possible to him now will hopefully prevent a life time of frustration....
I went through years of this - jewellery I hated, a car I hated, clothing and bags I hated..... etc with my husband, years of well meaning gifts that were not my style that I really really hated - now I just buy what I like.
My DH just bought a new computer desk for my son for Christmas and come home with it today as a surprise and it's the most hideous thing that doesn't match anything in our house..... *sigh*
Breaking it really gently and as nicely a possible to him now will hopefully prevent a life time of frustration....