thatsthegirl212
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jul 5, 2009
- Messages
- 25
Hi everyone, I''m a newbie but have known about this site for awhile and often come here to read so many stories like my own! I''ve been dating my bf for nearly a year. I was in a summer share at the hamptons and he owned a house there and threw some huge party nearly every weekend that summer. He had a girlfriend at the time, some model, so we were just friendly although he told me later he had a crush on me. We lost touch when the summer was over and then I ran into him a year later at a charity event and well, here we are almost a year later! He has his own place and recently started entertaining the idea of us living together and although I''d love to I don''t want to just live with someone and have it go nowhere, I''ve done that before and have no desire to go through it again. My question is how do you bring up the whole ''where do you see this going'' conversation? He brought up the living together thing, we were at his place and getting ready to go out and I realized I''d left my ID at my place (he lives in Tribeca and I live on the upper east side - for the non NYC folks that''s like the distance between NY & LA!!!) so he made a comment about if I lived with him that wouldn''t be a problem if I forgot something. So here I am, trying not to read into it but of course I am and I''m not sure how to bring up the ''where are we going'' talk or even if I''m ready for that! What do you think?