The Bachelor - SPOILER WARNING!

[littlelysser]

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.

I so did not like Sarrat as I''ve named her. She looks like a darn rat and I just don''t like her. Sigh. The only thing that made it all okay was the Sarrat only got the ring on a necklace...mind you, it was a two carat plus chopard ring, but still. Boooo. I didn''t like her dress or her makeup or her hair.

I think Moana lost it with the family and I think she brought a touch too of the crazy for good doctor. Although I thought she looked beautiful and her post rejection limo ride made me a little teary...the whole thing about how she felt so foolish and stuff...sigh.

Mind you, I am entirely aware that I am upset about a stupid show where two people I do not know got engaged and will most likely break up.

Regarless, my sister and I are both very upset with the outcome...you know, cause we are total dorks.

 

[Kaleigh]

Haha me too. There is another thread on this in Family home and health. Mara and other's haven't seen it yet.

 

[SoonIHope]

a) yes, I feel dumb for caring!

b) Moana was SOOOO delusional!!! She kept talking about how Travis could see inside her soul and everything, but didn''t have ANY reason WHY she liked him!! I seriously am a bit worried for Travis that she''s going to stalk him or something!!

c) I agree that Sarah definitely wasn''t as pretty as Moana or as good at makeup and hair and all that. BUT I really thought she was sweet, and I was just proud of Travis (or any Bachelor or whatever) for choosing the NICEST most genuine girl, even though she WASN''T the prettiest! I really think that they (for once) might actually have a chance at making it! Also, I think the ring on the necklace was a good choice just because so many of these "engagements" end so quickly so he was just being smart and wanting to have more of a relationship first because he wants to take that committment seriously. I applaud him for that.

Okay I''m done being dorky now.

 

[littlelysser]

Now that I''ve cooled off a bit...

I do think that Travis and Sarrat make a better couple. I just didn''t care much for her...Moana seemed more real to me than Sarah. I don''t know...

Totally agree about the delusional...that last dinner between the two of them was kind of uncomfortable...And her repeatedly saying that Travis is the best HUMAN BEING and how she never connected with another HUMAN BEING like that...

And I do think Travis was a class act the whole way through...but still, I am sad.

And again - this is all written with the disclaimer that I realize what a total dork I am!

 

[mrssalvo]

I'm a Sarah fan. Since they both live in my town I had to pull for the local gal. I think Moana was way to emotionally unstable. I realize the show does major edits but if she wasn't in tears all the time they wouldn't have so much footage to show

. Sarah seems so down to earth and outgoing. Moana couldn't even get it together to answer Travis' parents questions, I actually was sitting here feeling awkward for him at the dinner. Travis seems like a really nice guy and I think Moana has a mysterious quality about her and she's possesses an hypnotic beauty that most men would be infatuated with. But I think his down to earth side took over and he really bonded with Sarah and found a wonderful friend and I hope they can make it work and that Sarah will be my daughter's kindergarden teacher

 

[SoonIHope]

Noooooo, Sarah was TOTALLY real!!! I don''t question that Moana really felt all psycho-delusional, but Sarah was so super genuine and also had REASONS to back it up!

Okay I have posted like 5 different times in two different Bachelor threads, I think I need to baaack awaayyy.

 

[SoonIHope]

Date: 2/27/2006 11:28:45 PM
Author: mrssalvo
I hope they can make it work and that Sarah will be my daughter''s kindergarden teacher

haha, that would be SO COOL!!!! I am so excited at that possibility!!!

ooooops, so much for stopping the Bachelor posts....

 

[monarch64]

Sorry, Albi, but I was very disappointed (selfishly so) that the ring was on a chain and there were NO HAND SHOTS!!!! I''ve tuned in to the Bachelor exactly twice all season, and I purposely waited until the last 20 minutes of the show to watch the outcome tonight, just to see the ring!!! LOL! And all we got was a couple BS glimpses of it sparkly on a chain.

Sure, they made a good decision (rationally) to wait until they got back to Nashville to see if things really work out off-camera, but STILL.

 

[CourtHorn]

I am so glad he picked Sarah. Moana was far too emotionally unstable. As a therapist, i really wanted to sit her down and have a big ol'' talk with her.

I felt like she was trying so hard to be "deep," but she really was just not sure of herself, or in touch with her emotions.

I heard rumors they have already broken up, so i hope that is not true.

 

[Mara]

LAME LAME LAME LAME!!!!

Sarah could not have been more BORING....she drove me insane the whole time. I wanted to perform mole removal at almost every opportunity.

Greg thought that he would choose Sarah because he felt like Moana was too different and unique for someone like Travis who he felt was really dull, and I pretty much have to agree. Travis is so middle America, he didn't know what to do with a girl like Moana! (Though he was pretty hot even though I am really disappointed in him)

Above and beyond her lame emotional outbursts (Moana), I really liked how varied she was...she cooked, spoke different languages, loved to travel, was articulate and intelligent and just interesting! They also had alot more passion. I felt SO bad for her in the limo, I felt she really had put her heart out there and it just got stomped on. I definitely rooted for her because I know what it can be like to be the dark, cynical one amongst all the typical good girls.

I felt like when the parents were grilling them that it is really hard to be in that situation...and personally I didn't feel like either one of them had to have reasons as to why they liked someone, who really cared. If someone asked me reasons why I liked my husband when we were dating, I would have had to take a few minutes too. That's such a cliche question IMO.

Oh and add to that Sarah and Travis's ridiculous pecks on the lips to suffice as kisses...and her horrible sequined green dress...absolute tacksville!!

Can you tell I am disappointed? SOOO lame! I didn't even watch the last few minutes.

I also had heard that his last comments in mags were that 'it was a great experience' but nothing about being happy or having found the right girl so who knows. Unfortunately Bachelor's track record is not that great with lasting relationships!

Oh well Drew and Cheryl won last nite, I guess I can't have em all the way I want em.

 

[lilyinct]

I think I am probably going to be the only one with this opinion- but I found Travis incredibly boring and repetitive, not to mention lacking depth.

Up until Moana''s last "scene", I didn''t have a great vibe on her, but my opinion has changed. I really feel for her, those sobs were gut renching, and all those comments about being a "fool"....I almost got weepy myself!

Should be interesting to see if Sarah and Travis ever get hitched.

One more thing....on a residents salary, there is no way Travis could have afforded that ring....but I''m pretty sure I''ve read in the past that the Bachelors purchase the engagement rings...any thoughts?

 

[mrssalvo]

Date: 2/28/2006 8:15:36 AM
Author: lilyinct


One more thing....on a residents salary, there is no way Travis could have afforded that ring....but I''m pretty sure I''ve read in the past that the Bachelors purchase the engagement rings...any thoughts?

Nope, ABC buys the rings. I think Aaron was the only one who chose to buy it himself

 

[mrssalvo]

Date: 2/28/2006 2:03:57 AM
Author: Mara



Sarah could not have been more BORING....she drove me insane the whole time. I wanted to perform mole removal at almost every opportunity.


Greg thought that he would choose Sarah because he felt like Moana was too different and unique for someone like Travis who he felt was really dull, and I pretty much have to agree. Travis is so middle America, he didn't know what to do with a girl like Moana! (Though he was pretty hot even though I am really disappointed in him)


Above and beyond her lame emotional outbursts (Moana), I really liked how varied she was...she cooked, spoke different languages, loved to travel, was articulate and intelligent and just interesting! They also had alot more passion. I felt SO bad for her in the limo, I felt she really had put her heart out there and it just got stomped on. I definitely rooted for her because I know what it can be like to be the dark, cynical one amongst all the typical good girls.

I felt like when the parents were grilling them that it is really hard to be in that situation...and personally I didn't feel like either one of them had to have reasons as to why they liked someone, who really cared. If someone asked me reasons why I liked my husband when we were dating, I would have had to take a few minutes too. That's such a cliche question IMO.


Oh and add to that Sarah and Travis's ridiculous pecks on the lips to suffice as kisses...and her horrible sequined green dress...absolute tacksville!!

I agree Sarah had her boring moments and I agree Travis had no where near the personality of some of the other bachelor's. Also with ya on the "pretty darn hot." During some of the shows I was thinking with my personality I would completely overwhelm someone like him

I actually liked Moana at first and loved her always winning his attention. It wasn't until she got all weepy that I was thinking, ok, this guy is 33 and doctor and she's a fruitcake, albeit a varied one with the cooking, languages etc..

the parents were grilling them, but they had to know those questions would be asked and have some sort of answer prepared. Just sitting there like a deer caught in headlights just made her look insecure and insincere IMO. i realize Moana was having intense feelings but by being so serious and deep she seemed over the top instead of fun loving and adventures.

I hated Sarah's dress too. the whole season she made some strange wardrobe choices. She needs to take a style tip from Moana and stick to black.

I think the ring was a simple 2.2 carat solitaire??? anyone else get a better glimpse?


I'm ready for a fun loving, lots of personality bachelor or bachelorette

 

[allycat0303]

I''m so not into reality shows, but I actually watched the 2 last episodes.

All I heard Travis say was "Thank you".

In any case, I was sure he would pick Mona because there seemed to be some HEAT between them, while Sara and him struck me as more "friends" in any case, i doubt they''ll stay together.

I LOVED Mona''s style, it was gorgeous. And I loved the final dress she wore.

And I found the sequins totally ugly too. You have Esacda to pick from and you pick that dress. Yuck.

 

[littlelysser]

Mara: Word.

 

[Catmom]

Oh my...............the ring! I believe it was a 2.2 carat solitaire, D IF! It was gorgeous..................drool, drool.

 

[littlelysser]

Also, allycat...

You have Esacda to pick from and you pick that dress. Yuck.

Truer words have not been spoken...

 

[fortheloveofdiamonds]

I've nto watched the show at all except for last night because I, too, knew there would be some bling for glimpse.

It looked to me like a 2.2 ct D IF and the setting looked like the Michael B Lace collection. Anyways, did you hear the jeweler saying that D IF means that the diamond is "perfect"!

Anyways, it was nice but it didn't even sparkle like crazy even under all those lights. I mean, mine is no "D IF Perfect" but it sparkles in the optemetrist's chair, what would it do on tv! But I digress!

I really felt bad for that Moana girl. Like somoene posted earlier, her sobs were truly gut wrenching. I told my husband, who had just commented "how can you watch this crap?", that I felt for her. He said, don't because she only brought it upon herself. She knew what she was getting into. He's sorta right, but still she's a woman and I could almost feel her pain.

I can see why he picked the Sarah girl. She seemed nice and simple and he seemed nice and simple and they both seemed boring. Opposites attract, as you can see with Travis and Moana but its easier to make it work with someone just like you. I'm saying its easier, but not necessary. It can work in any situation.

I found it funny when Moana lamented that "she had to work at relationships with so many others, but that with Travis there was no work" PUHLEEZE!!!!! It's been what? 2 months! In Paris! Girl you are delusional if you think it was always gonna be like that. And she seemed like she was "TRYING" to be deep all the time. I just didint' dig it. She is absolutely breathtaking, stunning, gorgeous, though!

I think he chose Sarah because she was more down to earth and realized that the show was what it was and that their relationship after the show would be what it would be.

I don't think it will last. Is Travis the only bachelor in history to have professed that he is "totaly in like" instead of totally "in love"... ? Maybe they have a future.

ETA: Did you notice how NOT INTO IT Sarah's mother was?

 

[decodelighted]

Okay ... I gave this a LOT of thought last night (because I am a crazy TV-watchin' nut ball).

MOANA
What did her in: unconscious narcissism. I realized EVERYTHING she said was about herself. How he "knew her" "understood her" basically loved HER. She was fascinated & flattered that a catch like him (intelligent, good looking, respected) would be so into her - while secretly believing all along that guys don't marry girls like her. We pick partners for how they make us feel about ourselves. Obviously he made her feel GREAT about herself. Travis was intrigued by her and seemed to have a genuine connection with her but ultimately she DIDN’T MAKE HIM FEEL GREAT ABOUT HIMSELF. Moana said "he showed me a part of myself I never knew I had." Travis said almost the same thing TO SARAH ... Travis to Sarah "I feel like if you hadn't been here I would have lost a part of myself." Now I liked Moana & was rooting for her for a long time. She's captivating & smart & introspective & she stood up for herself in the hen-house & she did have something with him ... just not THE thing that made him want her in the end. Maybe she will be The Bachelorette.

SARAH
What Sarah did right was to be herself. Who Travis wants and who Travis needs are clearly two different things. The moment he saw her with the Kindergarten class, BEFORE THEY'D EVEN KISSED I knew he'd choose her. He lit up around her love of children and he respected her line of work and being with her, respecting her MADE HIM FEEL GOOD ABOUT HIMSELF. He doesn't want to be the brooding Lothario chasing the mysterious Moana around the world. He wants to be a happy, active dad to a passel of kids and have picked them out the best dern Mom to ever dance a jig in a playground. Travis is not into fashion. He didn't care about the "ugly" sequined dress or their initial "friend" chemistry. He liked her. But more importantly he admired her and ultimately her fresh-faced, Ivory gal charm SEDUCED him. Though Moana complained "The good girl always wins." I don't really think that's the case. Unless, of course, you have a pretty genuine doctor guy who believe in sensible things like "taking it slow" and finding a person who takes as much pride in their profession/nature/self as you yourself do. Moana was shocked someone could "know her." Sarah was literally impossible NOT to know. And more importantly she made Travis feel known/heard/understood - which is why, ultimately, she made him feel as he said "at home" - even in Paris.

 

[Mara]

The one thing that I hope comes out of this is that Moana is able to see past his loserishness (was his ending convo with her not the most LAME ever???? I mean stomp on her heart and be like ''yeah this was the whirlwind fun Paris romance that everyone wishes they could have ...... *crickets*....BEFORE I go off and marry the hometown honey who will birth my 12 children''....and then I''m sorry and Thank You. I would have sucker-punched him.

)...and realize that she did let herself open up and become vulnerable and that there are guys out there who will not abuse her and break her heart...sounds like she has some serious man issues. Hopefully with some distance she will be able to see that what she thought she had with Travis she CAN find with another man if she isn''t afraid to hope again.

Much of it WAS about her because I just felt like she had never been with someone who was so good before, she kept saying all her ex''s were losers, and to me she seemed to be realizing, wow okay I don''t have to date a bonehead, there are nice guys out there. So it was doubly heart-wrenching for me in the end to see him not choose he and take the ''safe road'' because she had really trusted him so completely with her heart and was so in awe of what she felt she had found in him.

So Deco I do see your point re: not making him feel good but I felt like that was because she was completely overwhelmed by how he was making HER feel. New feelings.

Moana''s emotional outbursts were something I cannot understand as I''m not like that and it seems really interesting to be such a dark brooding personality and yet have those kinds of emotions simmering so closely all the time, if I didn''t know better I would say she was some tortured artist, but nope, a distrubtion manager.

In terms of Sarah, I just can''t get past how friendly they were. That''s it. Friendly. In the second or third episode, she was the one he asked if she had any passion or if she was a passionate person. And then he had to ask her if she was a sexual being. Does anyone remember that? I was like OMG how sad that he has to ASK her if she''s passionate or sexual? Is she a total cold fish? That was the first time I''d noticed her. So that just totally stuck with me the whole time. All those closed mouth pecks and the friendly attitude, I was like how is he going to have a real relationship with this girl, there is absolutely no chemistry there. I felt like she was the easy choice because she lived close to him, no struggle to see each other, and that if doesn''t work out, oh well no one has moved a few states over to be with you etc.

I always hate these forced scenarios aka when the parents and sister were grilling Moana and she just sat there at the dinner table. I mean at least say something! Tell them it''s none of their business or you can''t articulate it. I also felt like Travis should have been the big man there and said okay well why don''t we just eat dinner and have some fun, and we can finish talking afterwards. Instead he just sat there and stared at her. And then later was like oh they never got to see the real Moana, the fun one. You didn''t help her out at all assclown. How nice!

Anyway for Moana, I loved her sense of style, her look, her attitude...I think if she had been a little less emotional *I* would have liked her better but I don''t know if it would have made a whit of difference for who Travis chose but I would not in a million years one or two episodes ago have said he would have chosen Sarah. I just didn''t feel it and I still don''t!

 

[Caribou]

I didn''t watch this season because I''ve had my fill of this show. But I have read and heard enough to want to watch the last episode.

What I think is most interesting is that people said (before the final choice) that Sarah and Travis were more like friends, like that''s a bad thing. My FI and I started VERY slow in the beginning...slower than I had ever been with anyone. It helped us form a friendship that, I think, made our relationship much stronger than had we just jumped into bed on our first date. Because of this, I am able to totally be my dork self around him, with all the other guys I''ve dated my dorkness was ''hiding in the closet'' because I would always be thinking ''OMG, they are not going to like me if I say this or do that''. The only people I would let totally loose with were my friends...and now him. He doesn''t care that I''m a dork, he''s just as much of a dork (although he''ll debate this) as I am and we have fun together. Something I''ve never had before. I think because Sarah and Travis formed that friendship they have a better chance of lasting than Moana and Travis would have. When I was watching the little clips of both girls with Travis I thought, Moana is physically beautiful where as Sarah is cute but her inner beauty makes her just as beautiful as Moana. Make sense?

Although, I''m not convinced that this couple will last, I think they have a better chance because of the friendship they formed.

 

[Mara]

OMG was that French store they were in ESCADA? And Sarah came out with that? GAWD. Don't listen to your Midwest mother for style advice Sarah! That champagne one she had on with the one shoulder was WAY better and it really made her look elegant. The green sequins were just hideous AND as an added side-effect it made her bootie look huge. Not in a good way. And then she told her Mom, better show him I can pretty it up or dress up or whatever and I'm thinking in that dress? I also thought it was black til I saw it laying on her bed glowing like bright green Moana Kryponite.

I loved that soft pink corduroy looking jeanish jacket with flared sleeves that was hanging behind Sarah in the 'on the couch' shots, mmm mmm good!!

re: the ring, talk about being disappointed with Chopard!! You go to a store like that, we get a quick flash in the pan of the rings and then they both choose the same one? LAME! And then when the lady brings them out to loser Travis he is like oh this is what they chose okay, shot of the same ring. We didn't get to see anything else at all. And hello again, you go to Chopard and come out with that? I figured there'd be way more unique pieces there or something other than a plain ole solitaire? I also thought it had some detailing on the band ala Lace but then there were times when it looked smooth so I could not tell if it was a reflection or what. And yes I had a good laugh when the gal said 'IF means its totally perfect'...whatever lady!

And it looked small for a 2.2c I was sad to say!

I really liked Travis in looks and sometimes in personality but he was pretty darn dull most of the time. I really hated when he would just sit there and stare at whoever was talking to him with the most blank look ever on his face. Could you imagine him as your DR? With that solemn blank stare? I'd be like OMG its a tumor! I'm going to DIE! Greg made some comment like 'he's a DR? he seems very inarticulate'...and my friend's husband called him a lughead...hehee.

 

[monarch64]

OK, as a midwestern girl here I just have to clarify that Nashville, TN is the South, not the Midwest. We can''t blame the midwest for all Sarah''s fashion mistakes, nor can we blame the south...let''s just blame Sarah herself for being utterly boring and having no sense of style whatsoever. LOL!

 

[decodelighted]

Date: 2/28/2006 12:00:00 PM
Author: Caribou
Moana is physically beautiful where as Sarah is cute but her inner beauty makes her just as beautiful as Moana. Make sense?

Exactly! It's funny though ... my FI watched this with me because I'd been away all weekend & we wanted to spend time together but I HAD to see how this ended (DORK

) ... he MUCH prefered Sarah. He kept saying how cute she was and how Travis should pick her. And that's key if you think about it. A LOT OF GUYS, when they're looking for "the one" instead of "the hottest" are baseing the choice on a primal level ... she's sweet, she's "mom-ish", she's wholesome, she's caring, she's fun, she's lively. Believe me, if my FI picked ME ... he wasn't into the Moana's of the world.

But if, say, we were voting for the next Fashion Icon or Great Beauty ... that's Moana. She has incredible style. I loved how she rocked the turtleneck and hoop look as opposed to trashy ho, in-your-face booby halters that most of those Ditzes wore. She is stunningly gorgeous and interesting. But as our P-scope therapist (CourtHorn) said - you just wanna have a talk with her. She has some growing up to do ... she has to date more "nice guys" before settling down .... and she has to start beliving about herself the very qualities she thought Travis saw in her. Which is why I kinda hope she is The Bachelorette. We could see her broken heart mended (no one wanted her to be that openly humiliated & wounded ... I did feel for her) AND ... we could enjoy a whole new season of FLY FASHION Moana-style.

 

[IrishEyes]

OMG Mara, your posts are cracking me up!!!! That is EXACTLY how I felt last nite!

I only watched the last episode, so I missed all the hoo-ha leading up to it. However I knew within 8 seconds of tuning in that I was rooting for Moana. She just seemed more exciting and captivating, while Sarah seemed so boooooorrrriiiiiinnnnggg........

THis travis dude was ok looking, but he seemed kinda dull. Definitely not my type of guy. I love how all these bachelors are so goody-two-shoes and "sweet" and "wholesome" guys when they are on TV. Sometimes I wonder if they are really just that boring, or if it''s just an act. Like when the cameras are off, they phone their buddies and say "dude, this one chick here is smokin''! I''d like to (fill in explitive) her when I get the chance"

Sorry. What can I say....I like men that are a little more forward and sexual. Guys that just sit there and stare at you while you talk or tell them how you feel about them just don''t do it for me.

So my advice to Moana: move on sweetie! you can do so much better. While you do need to tone down the outbursts a little, I think you''re pretty hot stuff and you can get a better deal someplace else!

 

[singer]

I am so glad that Sarah won! She is so sweet and genuine, but I guess I am a little biased because she is a teacher (as well am I

). I just wouldn''t ever picture her creating any major drama (bad drama) in a relationship. What was there not to like about her? Some of your guys'' posts confuse me. I thought Moana was a fruit loop...she really needs to see a head doctor...I mean really, she is so unstable and now she is going to go crawl back into "her hole." She is just too dramatic for my taste.

BTW, I think Sarah is very pretty. I guess she does look like "the girl next door," so maybe some of you don''t prefer that look, my here in the midwest she would be considered very pretty. Moana would be snubbed here.

I also liked her dress. Yeah, it was a little flashy, but it was very flattering on her...I thought.

 

[FireGoddess]

I definitely had a change of heart somewhere along the way because for a good 2/3 of the season, I was rooting for Moana. I thought she was gorgeous, and what mattered was that she got along with Travis and had chemistry with him, not the rest of the girls in the house. For most of the series I thought she was misunderstood, and just very guarded with her heart.

Somewhere in the course of the show I got tired of the emotional outbursts, and I thought she did a horrible job with Travis's family. I understand you have all these deep feelings, but you can't put SOMEthing into words about why you fell for him, or why you should be together? I mean, really now. That's a little ridiculous.

Sarah wasn't my favorite but I never disliked her. Most of the time I thought, "awwww, too bad, she's very likable and sweet but they don't seem to have any chemistry. It's more of a buddies thing." But I guess that blossomed behind the scenes. We also have to remember that the editors of the show TRY TO skew you into thinking one outcome when in reality it's another. I remember with Meredith she chose the jackass that seemed to treat her just so-so....but SOMEthing must have been going on that we didn't see for her to pick him. So....it's very possible that sparks flew with Sarah but they weren't televised.

During the episode last night I found myself really rooting for Sarah, and I was happy with the outcome. If he had picked Moana, I truly believe that in a few months we'd hear they broke up. But with Sarah, I do believe there is a possibility for happily ever after.

 

[Tacori E-ring]

I am also a Sarah fan (as is FI, I love that he is into this show). Moana is CRAZY! Really, really dramatic (and I am a dramatic person and could never keep up with her, she was too emotional, said the same lines OVER and OVER again. I hated her! What an ego too. She never even mentioned Sarah or the chance that she would not be chosen. What was the deal when his family asked what makes them a good couple and she said its not in my character to respond? And her step mom, even crazier. Travis is pretty much THE PERFECT GUY (my favorite bachelor besides Charlie so far) and did the right thing. Sarah might not be the prettiest girl there but she is cute, nice, and actually HAS a personality. I think he made the right choice.

 

[Morticia]

I watched a few episodes, but from the ones I saw, I really liked Sarah. I thought she seemed sweet and genuine and wasn''t all about drama, unlike the other girls. She wasn''t as glamourous as some but she was definitely cute.

Moana seemed a little unstable to me....

 

[Mara]

I actually really loved that Moana never mentioned the other girls and totally brushed off comments about them not liking her or whatever. I didn''t think it was big ego as much as decent self-esteem and realizing you can''t please everyone. You don''t need to justify why others don''t like you...who cares about them anyway?

It always drives me nuts on every Bachelor where inevitably some of the chicks are like ''oh I can''t believe you chose so and so'' or ''so and so is not here for the right reasons''. What are the right reasons exactly? I appreciated that Moana never was like oh the other girls aren''t right for you or let''s talk about the drama in the house or whatever. She was like that''s done and I''m over it. I also really appreciated that in the last episode she was like yeah I could see how the girls wouldn''t like me, I was really hypocritcal etc...so many girls can''t admit that they do anything wrong (Ally G anyone?!).

FG that whole dinner scene with Moana was really awkward...I agree she could have said more but I just felt like she was caught off-guard being that she had such a good afternoon with the sister and BIL..maybe she thought she wasn''t going to get grilled at the table? Though her parents did a good job of grilling him that is for sure! Tables turned.

The funny thing for me was when Moana was crying how the good girls always win and guys don''t marry girls like her. Not that I speak 3 languages or am quite as mysterious as Moana, but I did land the man and I am definitly not remotely close to the good gir!!