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Just wanted to post this news story for all to see. This is so sad. I heard on the radio this morning that the guy had been arrested a few days earlier (breaking a no contact order) and was out on bail.



TACOMA, Wash. - A gunman shot and killed a special education teacher at a Tacoma elementary school Friday morning, shortly before students began arriving for school. The suspected shooter was shot and killed by police shortly after the incident at Birney Elementary School.

The teacher has been identified as Jennifer Paulson, 30, a special education teacher who had been with the school district since 2004 and Birney Elementary since 2007. School District spokesman Dan Voelpel said she worked in the language resource center helping students one-on-one with reading problems.


Tacoma Police spokesman Mark Fulghum said the shooter, identified as Jed Ryan Waits, had waited for Paulson for several hours when she arrived around 7:35 a.m. Fulghum says Waits shot her multiple times as she was trying to enter the school. Fire crews responding to the call found Paulson dead in the staff parking lot. She suffered two fatal gunshots wounds, one to the head and another to the chest.


Omar Moreno, 22, who lives across the street from the school, said he heard three gunshots.


"I heard a teacher screaming at the top of her lungs -- just screaming," he said. "I looked out my window and I saw the guy. He started running down the middle of the street and got in his car."


Moreno said the man, wearing a white snow cap and white gloves, drove off in a tan car. Soon after, Moreno said, a custodian barreled out of the school screaming for someone to call the police.


Moreno said he saw the victim lying on the ground, bleeding from the mouth. It was clear to him she had died, he said.


Witnesses were able to give police a description of Wait''s vehicle.


A Pierce County deputy later spotted the car about 10 miles from the school and pulled over the car in the parking lot of a daycare, said Pierce County sheriff''s spokesman Ed Troyer. Troyer said Waits came out of the car firing a handgun. The deputy returned fire and killed the suspect.


"We''re lucky our guy''s OK. The guy did have semi-automatic and did fire a round," said Troyer.


No children were at the school when the shooting happened and no one else was hurt. Most students were on buses, which were rerouted once news of the shooting occurred. The shooting with the suspect prompted the evacuation of the daycare.


Years of stalking


The two had known each other since she was in college, when they worked together at a cafeteria at Seattle Pacific University.


In her petition for the anti-harassment order filed in Pierce County District Court, Paulson said she and Waits occasionally socialized with co-workers and friends outside of work as a group but "never had any sort of romantic involvement."


She said she heard from Waits about once a year since she graduated from college in 2003 - and on that annual occasion he sometimes called her 10 to 15 times in one day.


Things became more intense in spring 2008, when he showed up her school, walked into the building and passed the office, where he was stopped by a secretary. Later that year, she saw him sitting in his car near the school.


"I never told him where I work and do not know how he found out," Paulson wrote.


"He didn''t attend the school - they just met," said Ken Paulson, her father. "They never dated. It was a co-worker. She graduated, he disappeared - never met, never called, nothing after that. A few years later, he called her. She had moved out of our house. He had called our house, and I didn''t give him her number."


He also sent roses and a bear to her at the school. Paulson''s principal called Waits'' commander in the National Guard to inform him of the harassment, she wrote.


Fulghum said Pauson had gone to court to get an anti-harassment protection order against him within the last few weeks.


A Tacoma Schools spokesperson said the staff at Birney was well aware of the history between these two. They apparently had a description of Waits at the front desk and his license plate number. If he was ever seen on campus, staff was supposed to call 911.


Waits lived in Ellensburg and had multiple orders filed against him by the victim and another woman.


In September of 2008, Paulson had filed a protection order against him in Pierce County. In November 2008, another woman who lived in Ellensburg had filed a protection order against Waits. That order was dismissed when the woman failed to appear in court.


At that time, Waits was charged with 4th degree assault and was given a deferred adjudication, which allows the offender to avoid a formal sentence if conditions of a probation are met for a period of time handed down by the court. Waits was put on probation, which was extended for six months.


Ken Paulson said his daughter filed a two-year restraining order against Waits a year and a half ago. In December, she thought she saw him at the school. Last Friday, she thought he was following her and called 911. Dispatchers told her to drive to the nearest police station, where he was arrested by police.


Authorities say Waits was jailed Friday through Monday; he posted $10,000 bail and was released.


"She was very kind and merciful, loving person. That''s probably why she was a special ed teacher," said Ken Paulson. "What happened today was evil - a terrible thing."


Dennis Waits, Jed''s father, described his son as a non-violent person. Waits said his son had been in the army and even had high security clearances.


Waits said they had no indication that anything like this was going to happen. He issued a heart-felt apology to Jennifer''s family.


"I wish he had turned the gun on us instead," Waits said.


Meanwhile, staff at Birney Elementary are stunned by the shooting.


"This is a situation that doesn''t cross your mind, that you don''t think is going to happen. When it does, it knocks everybody flat," said Voelpel. "You can see that on the faces of the teachers as they were arriving and hugging one another and trying to support one another. It''s a terrible blow."


Birney Elementary school, which has 400 students in grades K-5 and is located in the 1200 block of South 76th Street in Tacoma, has canceled classes for Friday and Monday as investigators process the crime scene. There will be a family gathering at the school on Monday at 6 p.m.


Statement from Seattle Pacific University


"I was profoundly saddened to hear of the senseless shooting death of SPU alumna Jennifer Paulson this morning in Tacoma. Her work teaching special education students provides just a glimpse of the loving, quality person she was, and the positive influence she has had in the greater community and among her family and friends. Our hearts and prayers go out to her family in their time of grief. We are proud to remember Jennifer as an SPU student and graduate." --Seattle Pacific University President Philip W. Eaton


Life Center, Jennifer''s church, will have a memorial in Tacoma on S.Union Ave. on Tuesday, March 2 at noon. It will be open to the public.


KING 5''s Deborah Feldman, Karin Czulik and Drew Mikkelsen contributed to this report.
 
That is so tragic! It''s scary to think he was just in jail but was released, it seems she tried to protect herself best she could but it just wasn''t enough....her poor family
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Sad.

One note - Paulson said she didn''t know how the guy found out where she works, etc., but he must have found out via the school district''s website. It lists all the teachers.
 
He was released on $10,000 bail? Did I read that right?
 
Why was he released if he had broken the restraining order? He followed her to the police station right? Thats where
the cops arrested him if I read correctly. Why would he be let out?

Restraining orders seem useless if this is basically what happens when you break one.

We just had a girl killed here in Florida by a 60 year old stalker. She use to work at Hooters. She had tried to get
a restraining order (had 70 pages of email from him). It was denied
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. She was shot and killed by the stalker.
 
I saw this on the news... So sad! Just goes to show how much a PPO does...
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Very sad story. My thoughts are with her family, students and coworkers.
 
This just makes me physically ill...there has to be more that can be done for these poor women who live their lives day in and day out in total fear, some way to protect them and keep them safe from these deluded, irrational people...I''m just so frustrated, angry and sad over stories like this...I read about the Florida case, it broke my heart - what a horrible thing for these families, to lose someone you love in such a senseless and violent way. Sorry, didn''t mean to go on, but these stalking cases really upset me.
 
Very unfortunate - but far too common.

A restraining order does not equal self protection. Yet, far to many people never take the threat seriously enough to consider strategies to increase awareness and things they can do for self defense. It is not always a CCW permit. I know people who wear body armor.

Perry
 
Stapler-stealing is a common issue in our "small" (under 20 people) office at work. The problem is, everyone had the same stapler. So I ordered a red one
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My stapler is safe and sound now because it''s so easily identifiable!
 
This just breaks my heart.

TooPatient, thanks for posting this, and getting the word out, and getting us all thinking, about Jennifer Paulson, and about the society that leaves her and those like her with no real defenses.
 
Circe, thanks for posting. After reading this, I was so so scared at the semblance to your recent post, and the off-chance possibility it could be you. Please be careful. I''ve been through a bout of this myself, and my heart goes out to Jennifer Paulson and her family. It breaks my heart to hear that the father reportedly said "I wish he had turned the gun on us instead."
 
Lilyfoot, I think you got into the wrong thread!

This is so sad. There should be more done for women to protect them from stalkers. My thoughts go out to her family.
 
How awful, so sad
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Date: 3/1/2010 8:36:59 PM
Author: Circe
This just breaks my heart.

TooPatient, thanks for posting this, and getting the word out, and getting us all thinking, about Jennifer Paulson, and about the society that leaves her and those like her with no real defenses.
Too many people wind up dead and too few people take notice when they do.

Events like Jennifer''s murder need to be noticed and remembered.

People, men and women, need to be aware that stuff like this happens (and happens way too much) to regular people. What people choose to do with this awareness is up to them.


Circe -- This story was just so close to your situation. I thought of you when I heard the news. (I''m glad you are okay.) Your gut is telling you that something is wrong. Listen to it. Be careful.
 
Date: 3/2/2010 12:42:32 PM
Author: TooPatient
Date: 3/1/2010 8:36:59 PM

Author: Circe

This just breaks my heart.


TooPatient, thanks for posting this, and getting the word out, and getting us all thinking, about Jennifer Paulson, and about the society that leaves her and those like her with no real defenses.

Too many people wind up dead and too few people take notice when they do.


Events like Jennifer''s murder need to be noticed and remembered.


People, men and women, need to be aware that stuff like this happens (and happens way too much) to regular people. What people choose to do with this awareness is up to them.



Circe -- This story was just so close to your situation. I thought of you when I heard the news. (I''m glad you are okay.) Your gut is telling you that something is wrong. Listen to it. Be careful.

OnVacation, TooPatient - thanks for thinking of my situation (though, I''ll admit, the resemblance, and the resemblance being clear to people I know on the internet alone is ... scary). I suppose what''s scarier yet is that the only "coincidence" is that I posted when I did: otherwise, I''d bet this could resonate with a frighteningly high percentage of people, just because it is so common, and because there are absolutely no safeguards out there. Short of wearing body armor, under our current system of law, if someone decides to stalk us, it seems like we''re plain out of luck. It''s enough to make you want to rethink the graduations of innocent vs. guilty ....
 
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