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asscherisme

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I have enjoyed this board so much- originally coming here for diamond info and getting so much more out of it.

I am going to take a break for a while because the whole marriage/engagement/looking forward to future together is hard to take right now.

My husband of 13 years is moving out this weekened (at my insistance) as in seperation. I don''t want to go iinto details, but something happenend recently that was the straw that broke the camels back on many years of doubts. For the safety of my children, I need him out of the house. I have been kind of in denial about some safety issues and my son''s therapist has been telling me this for a long long time. I finally opened my eyes and realized I need him out.

Thanks for the friendship and community and I''ll be back to visit in the future, I promise!
 
Date: 1/12/2008 1:21:00 AM
Author:asscherisme
I have enjoyed this board so much- originally coming here for diamond info and getting so much more out of it.

I am going to take a break for a while because the whole marriage/engagement/looking forward to future together is hard to take right now.

My husband of 13 years is moving out this weekened (at my insistance) as in seperation. I don't want to go iinto details, but something happenend recently that was the straw that broke the camels back on many years of doubts. For the safety of my children, I need him out of the house. I have been kind of in denial about some safety issues and my son's therapist has been telling me this for a long long time. I finally opened my eyes and realized I need him out.

Thanks for the friendship and community and I'll be back to visit in the future, I promise!
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I'm so sorry to hear this. If you do want to talk, we will be here for you. I wish you and your children well during this difficult time.
 
I am so sorry you are facing this difficult situation. You are brave to go ahead and do the right thing for yourself and your kids. PS is such a warm community - we are here for you when you need us. I pray for the very best outcome for you and your family.
 
Date: 1/12/2008 1:24:53 AM
Author: risingsun

Date: 1/12/2008 1:21:00 AM
Author:asscherisme
I have enjoyed this board so much- originally coming here for diamond info and getting so much more out of it.

I am going to take a break for a while because the whole marriage/engagement/looking forward to future together is hard to take right now.

My husband of 13 years is moving out this weekened (at my insistance) as in seperation. I don''t want to go iinto details, but something happenend recently that was the straw that broke the camels back on many years of doubts. For the safety of my children, I need him out of the house. I have been kind of in denial about some safety issues and my son''s therapist has been telling me this for a long long time. I finally opened my eyes and realized I need him out.

Thanks for the friendship and community and I''ll be back to visit in the future, I promise!
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I''m so sorry to hear this. If you do want to talk, we will be here for you. I wish you and your children well during this difficult time.
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You sound strong, and are doing what is right for you and your children. Sending prayers your way. We will always be here for you. Best wishes to you in the days to come. Hang in there.
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Date: 1/12/2008 1:35:21 AM
Author: Kaleigh

Date: 1/12/2008 1:24:53 AM
Author: risingsun

I''m so sorry to hear this. If you do want to talk, we will be here for you. I wish you and your children well during this difficult time.
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You sound strong, and are doing what is right for you and your children. Sending prayers your way. We will always be here for you. Best wishes to you in the days to come. Hang in there.
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I just want to echo the sentiments rising sun and Kaleigh have expressed above and tell you that I admire your strength and with you the best.
 
I''m so sorry you are going through this... I had to insist my x leave as well, and even when it''s the right decision, it is still torture. My prayers are with you.
 
Date: 1/12/2008 1:21:00 AM
Author:asscherisme
I have enjoyed this board so much- originally coming here for diamond info and getting so much more out of it.

I am going to take a break for a while because the whole marriage/engagement/looking forward to future together is hard to take right now.

My husband of 13 years is moving out this weekened (at my insistance) as in seperation. I don''t want to go iinto details, but something happenend recently that was the straw that broke the camels back on many years of doubts. For the safety of my children, I need him out of the house. I have been kind of in denial about some safety issues and my son''s therapist has been telling me this for a long long time. I finally opened my eyes and realized I need him out.

Thanks for the friendship and community and I''ll be back to visit in the future, I promise!
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Oh asscherisme, I totally understand your need to take a hiatus from the PS boards. We really will be here for you anytime, whether it''s during the process you''re going through, after. whatever. I really wish you the best of luck in what you''re going through and hope that you come out of this a healthier and happier person, and that your children do as well. You have my wholehearted respect and best wishes. Take care and hope to see you back here soon!
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Completely understand! We will miss you, but we are here for you as soon as you feel ready to come back. Sending you big hugs and wish you all the luck in the world!!!
 
Oh, we hope things go well and things get figured out and you get into a healthy, safe spot in your life (for your children, too!!).
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I wish you the best, and will pray for your family.
 
Adding my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
 
Do what you need to do to protect your children and yourself. I have many regrets for not taking action when I should have. In my case, it was "ambient abuse" which is hard for those outside the family unit to notice. It is good that you have support.

I hope you will come back to the boards in the future, at least as a distraction - I know what you mean - most people are here with hopes of the future and celebrating their relationships with diamonds. I get to do my own celebrating with what I''ve learned here.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you, ((((((Asscherisme))))))
 
I''m really sorry to hear of the seperation, but if it''s the right thing to do, them I''m glad you see that you are taking the appropriate action.

You poor thing, you have so much on your plate... I wish you much strength in the coming days. {{{major hugs}}}
 
I am sorry, but it sounds like you have thought this out and it has been brewing for a while. Your safety and the safety of your kids comes first no matter what. Good luck during this tough time, but be strong, the right choices are not always the easiest.
 
My best to you and your children during this difficult time.
 
I am so sorry you have to go through this. Hugs and good thoughts are coming your way.
 
I''m so sorry you are going through this. Sending prayers and good vibes. Please take care.
 
I am sorry to hear this, Asscher. I wish you the best and pray that things work out for you and your family. *Hugs*.
 
So sorry to hear about what you are going through. It sounds like you are making the right decision, putting the safety of yourself and your children above other concerns, even though I''m sure that''s very difficult to do and takes a lot of strength. Best wishes and prayers for you and your family during this difficult time.
 
I am so very sorry that you & your family are going through this, you are in my thoughts. We are here to support you in any way that you need, hang in there.
 
I''m sorry to hear about your separation, but I''m glad you are doing what''s best for you and your children. It''s not an easy decision but sounds like there were other issues besides the autism diagnoses. Sending cyber hugs.
 
I''m so sorry to hear your news, but you''ve obviously given this a lot of thought and doing the right thing for you and your family.

God bless.
 
I''m sorry to hear this. I admire your strength. I sure that making your husband move out is a difficult thing to do. My thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong and best of luck to you.
 
My mother had to do the same thing for my family and it was hard but it was the best thing she could have done. I know how hard it can be but you have my utmost respect for putting your children first and not taking the easy route.
 
I wish you and your family all the best. I hope whatever outcome you want is the one that happens. Know you can always come and vent to us! Stay strong.
 
So sorry to hear things are difficult. You are doing the right thing for your familiy and you and your children will stay in my thoughts and prayers. Hope to see you back soon.
 
Asscherisme, come back when you can. I will be thinking of you and your family and sending you my strongest prayers. I am sorry you are going through a difficult situation and wishing you strength.
 
please know that i have great respect for you and you and your family will be in my thoughts.

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I''m so sorry you are having to go through this. You must do what is best for your children and yourself. Good luck and please come back when you are ready.
 
I will keep your family in my prayers. I hope that you will be able to lean on your family and share the truth about the kids'' autism and have some support too. We are here for you and please pop in to check in and just say "I am ok". We will be missing you until then!
 
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