thatsthegirl212
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jul 5, 2009
- Messages
- 25
I''ve noticed that many of LIWs know their bf''s have the ring (many have even seen it) and are just waiting for them to propose, does this take the ''surprise'' out of it or would you just be so excited to finally be engaged it doesn''t matter. My best friend just got engaged, about a month ago, and she claimed to have no idea it was coming. I asked her if she would be just as excited if she knew it was coming (and the ring was in his possesion) and she said she wouldn''t as what would be the surprise then? I just don''t know. My bf and I were talking about one odmf his friends recent engagements and how his now fiancé was involved in the picking of the ring and everything up until the day he proposed (she didn''t know the actual day). My bf then asked if I would want to be involved in everything (he was speaking hypothetically of course) and I thought for a moment but said no, I wouldn''t want to know a thing, even about the ring...now I wonder if I should of said that I''d want to be involved. How many if you now engaged didn''t know and are happier that you weren''t involved, and vice versa too!