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Brilliant_Rock
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How many of you have gotten/did get surprise RSVP declines? I.e. from someone you totally expected to show?
I''m kind of irked. My boss and I work closely all day, every day - and there''s constant chit chat about the wedding, where I''m at in planning, etc. Back when his wife was pregnant, she was due just a few days before the wedding, and so I automatically assumed that they wouldn''t be coming. Then she miscarried
He has two other kids and he made a small comment recently that even though kids are invited, he doesn''t like bringing them to weddings since they don''t appreciate the event and require constant attention. I''ve just totally been under the impression that he and his wife will be attending. Yesterday in the mail was his RSVP with a big fat "decline" - no note or anything. He hasn''t mentioned it at work but he probably knows I got it last night so maybe he will today. I''m just kinda irked in a small way, I''ll be over it in a day, but its like dude! seriously! This guy is super nice and normal, so I just don''t get it. Maybe something came up last minute but why wouldn''t he just casually mention it at work?
Anyone else get a mini surprise like this?
On the bright side, thats another $120 I save on food
I''m kind of irked. My boss and I work closely all day, every day - and there''s constant chit chat about the wedding, where I''m at in planning, etc. Back when his wife was pregnant, she was due just a few days before the wedding, and so I automatically assumed that they wouldn''t be coming. Then she miscarried
Anyone else get a mini surprise like this?
On the bright side, thats another $120 I save on food