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Ideal_Rock
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Ok, you might think I''m being petty, but this is just still on my mind and I want to get some feedback from you guys. Last night I was helping my BF clean out his bookshelf. One of the things we pulled out was a box of stuff from an old girlfriend. It was just stuff that you collect during a relationship - notes, momentos, gifts, photos. As he went through them he through them out. There were some things that he didn''t want me to see and some stuff that even he didn''t even want to read cause it was an old love letter or something. He said he wanted to spare my feelings, didn''t want me to get sad or upset or jealous. That was considerate of him. There was something he didn''t want to throw away though. It was a gift he had personalized for her once. But on it there is their picture and a little story about them that says they get married and live happily ever after. (This he also didn''t want me to read, but it was too late.) He also has kept a photo album with tons of pictures of them as well as other friends in it. So anyways, I''ve met this girl and she is very nice. They are still friends, he even went to visit her a couple years ago and I felt uncomfortable about it the whole time. She calls every now and then still. But I still feel jealous!! Why does this happen to me!?!? I know that he had relationships before me, and I did before him. And I know that they are just friends now. I just wish he''d throw away the picture of them kissing.... It''s not like he "treasures" it , but still it bugs me.
So what I''m asking is, does anyone else feel weird or get a little jealous when old girlfriends/boyfriends are brought up? Or are you all ok with it because that''s life?
So what I''m asking is, does anyone else feel weird or get a little jealous when old girlfriends/boyfriends are brought up? Or are you all ok with it because that''s life?