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Ideal_Rock
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FH's family and my family live in the same city (Dallas, TX), which is where we met. We live in California, but when we go to Texas to spend time with family, we can spend time with eachother as well. The problem is, since I've known him, FHs family has opted to go out of town for either Thanksgiving or Christmas, making it hard for us to spend one of the two holidays together. This year, they're going to Connecticut for Christmas, and FH is going with them.
My family would be upset if I opted to spend Christmas with his family instead of with them, so I need to be in Dallas until the 25th. FH first extended an invitation to Conn., but when I mentioned I'd have to come the 25th or the 26th, he said it'd be too much of a pain for them to pick me up from the airport either of those days. A bit upset, I told him it probably wasn't worth it if I came after the 26th (they're leaving the 30th or the 31st, I believe). "I agree", he said, without a second thought.
Needless to say, my feelings are really hurt. He's acting as though he doesn't care if we spend Christmas apart. Yes, we spend the rest of the year together, but how long are we going to spend the holidays apart? It's not like we're teenagers anymore. We're 23 and 24, for crying out loud.
Am I being a baby?
My family would be upset if I opted to spend Christmas with his family instead of with them, so I need to be in Dallas until the 25th. FH first extended an invitation to Conn., but when I mentioned I'd have to come the 25th or the 26th, he said it'd be too much of a pain for them to pick me up from the airport either of those days. A bit upset, I told him it probably wasn't worth it if I came after the 26th (they're leaving the 30th or the 31st, I believe). "I agree", he said, without a second thought.
Needless to say, my feelings are really hurt. He's acting as though he doesn't care if we spend Christmas apart. Yes, we spend the rest of the year together, but how long are we going to spend the holidays apart? It's not like we're teenagers anymore. We're 23 and 24, for crying out loud.
Am I being a baby?