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My brain holds the expectation that oranges should be sweet.
When I bite into one that's tart I'm disappointed.
I'll usually finish the orange but won't enjoy it as much because it is not the way it should be.
Oranges are supposed to be sweet ... at least that's the recording in my head.
Now I like lemons.
I'll squeeze them on salads and fish, etc.
Once in a while I'll even eat a wedge and enjoy it, even though lemons are much more tart than oranges.
So why do I enjoy an orange less when it is tart?
It's like a category thing the brain does.
There are a zillion other expectations my brain has recorded over the years.
It sucks.
It's kind of related to being fully here in the moment as opposed to constantly comparing the moment to how the moment, or an orange, or a person should be.
Do you ever think about such things?
When I bite into one that's tart I'm disappointed.
I'll usually finish the orange but won't enjoy it as much because it is not the way it should be.
Oranges are supposed to be sweet ... at least that's the recording in my head.
Now I like lemons.
I'll squeeze them on salads and fish, etc.
Once in a while I'll even eat a wedge and enjoy it, even though lemons are much more tart than oranges.
So why do I enjoy an orange less when it is tart?
It's like a category thing the brain does.
There are a zillion other expectations my brain has recorded over the years.
It sucks.
It's kind of related to being fully here in the moment as opposed to constantly comparing the moment to how the moment, or an orange, or a person should be.
Do you ever think about such things?