My SO has been saving for a ring for just over a year now, and recently started looking. I knew roughly what his budget would be (and have sneakily been looking for ages!), so I knew roughly what we would get for our money ($3k-$4k) and am perfectly happy with that.
But he must have expensive taste, because he is extremely disappointed with what he can get for his money. He honestly thought that amount would buy whatever he wanted, because to us, it''s a lot of money. It also doesn''t help that I have humongous hands so even a reasonable ring on someone else is dwarfed on my size 10 finger.
He''s really upset and dejected. He had a little break down the other day, saying he''d been saving for ages and still couldn''t get me something nice. I think it''s hurt his pride a bit. I feel so bad, because I''m not the slightest bit worried about the ring budget being too small, and I hate that he feels inadequate because he doesn''t have millions of $$. On a selfish note, I also know this probably means he''ll do nothing for a few months while he adjusts his expectations, which means more waiting for me.
Has anyone else been in this situation? Advice?
But he must have expensive taste, because he is extremely disappointed with what he can get for his money. He honestly thought that amount would buy whatever he wanted, because to us, it''s a lot of money. It also doesn''t help that I have humongous hands so even a reasonable ring on someone else is dwarfed on my size 10 finger.
He''s really upset and dejected. He had a little break down the other day, saying he''d been saving for ages and still couldn''t get me something nice. I think it''s hurt his pride a bit. I feel so bad, because I''m not the slightest bit worried about the ring budget being too small, and I hate that he feels inadequate because he doesn''t have millions of $$. On a selfish note, I also know this probably means he''ll do nothing for a few months while he adjusts his expectations, which means more waiting for me.
Has anyone else been in this situation? Advice?