Smurfysmiles
Ideal_Rock
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I''m not sure how many of you have heard this phrase and I understand that people are well meaning but right now it''s just ticking me right off. I mention that dh and I can''t wait to have children and automatically we get
"oh you don''t need to do that right now"
"you need more time alone"
"babies are so expensive"
"you won''t get any sleep, why would you want to do that!"
"oh you are way too young for babies"
UGH. I just don''t understand why people feel the need to say these things about something I am just generally expressing interest and excitement about in the future. It''s not like I end the conversation by saying "Sorry gotta go make babies now" ya know? I guess I am just one of those people who hates being told what to do and how I should do things and what''s best for me...meh...if you read this far thanks for listening lol
"oh you don''t need to do that right now"
"you need more time alone"
"babies are so expensive"
"you won''t get any sleep, why would you want to do that!"
"oh you are way too young for babies"
UGH. I just don''t understand why people feel the need to say these things about something I am just generally expressing interest and excitement about in the future. It''s not like I end the conversation by saying "Sorry gotta go make babies now" ya know? I guess I am just one of those people who hates being told what to do and how I should do things and what''s best for me...meh...if you read this far thanks for listening lol