FutureMrsMRS
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 19, 2010
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Here''s the thing, I never had the fairy-tale wedding dream happening. I don''t like being the center of attention. I AM extremely close to my parents and close to my family in general. FI & I have large extended families, and I know regardless, there''s going to be hurt feelings no matter what -- I refuse to do a huge affair with hundred(s) of people - it isn''t what I want. Originally, I was just going to have my parents, siblings & their family, my kids, and 2 friends. Total of 20 people. FI (mom has passed and father is an a-hole, brother-long story). So he''s thinking grandmother, couple of cousins & aunt & uncle - 20 people max.
So, FI suggested sending the invites to eevryone, but assuming most won''t come (its semi-destination). I know at least 8 of my relatives who for sure, will make it.
So now, I''m looking at planning for 50-75, depending on who rsvp''s. And its getting (of course) more expensive.
Today, he said he knew I didn''t want a big thing but figured since I wanted to plan something (he wants destination-just the two of us-this summer) he figured we''d wait til next year.
But I don''t want to wait! I want to be married to him already! And I want the October 2nd date (significance of the date to us). I don''t know if I should go with the original guest list or if I should put it off until next year. Bleh
So, FI suggested sending the invites to eevryone, but assuming most won''t come (its semi-destination). I know at least 8 of my relatives who for sure, will make it.
So now, I''m looking at planning for 50-75, depending on who rsvp''s. And its getting (of course) more expensive.
Today, he said he knew I didn''t want a big thing but figured since I wanted to plan something (he wants destination-just the two of us-this summer) he figured we''d wait til next year.
But I don''t want to wait! I want to be married to him already! And I want the October 2nd date (significance of the date to us). I don''t know if I should go with the original guest list or if I should put it off until next year. Bleh