Those of us who''ve been there KNEW that the pain would pass, but it''s so hard to endure when you''re the one who''s hurting, and hard to believe it would get better. I''m so happy for you, really, really happy dear.
I''m snuggled in bed with the kitty right now! She turned 1 yesterday and I was so grateful to have her around.
You all were right about how I shouldn''t think of her as attached to him. At this point, she is just my cat. And the necklace he gave me is just a necklace. I no longer hold sentimental values to objects and pets. Woo hoo!!!
I haven''t run into him since the "snap" but I know that it will happen eventually. I bet it won''t feel great, but I know I won''t leave the place in tears.. I don''t care what he has to say to me, I''m not listening.
Enjoy your new founded single-ness! Being the new girl on the market is definately a fun place to be! Mr Right is out there... but why not enjoy Mr. Right Now? I know, I know, cliche! But sometimes those old cliches are true...
Just remember to schedule dates w/ yourself... Sometimes when one is out playing the field, you can feel like you lose a sense of yourself... Just be sure to schedule time in to do the things you love... even if it is just a mani-pedi, waxing session...