Single Gal Update

[OUpearlgirl]

A lot of you were very helpful and sweet to me following a devastating break up.. I just wanted to report back on how things are going now.

I was doing okay for the last 2 and a half months.. but I wasn''t really happy. Then one day something randomly snapped, and I no longer had any desire to be with him anymore. I think at this point I miss having a boyfriend, but not necessarily him in particular.

So now.. I LOVE BEING SINGLE! I haven''t been single except for first semester of freshman year. I had no idea so many boys thought I was cute.. and I had no idea there were SO many cute boys out there! I am really having fun and "playing the field." I have dates with 3 different boys lined up.. Hehe this is SO fun!

Anyway, I just thought those of you that were so kind to me would like to know that I am doing SO much better! Thank you for everything you said to me, it really did help.

 

[coatimundi_org]

Glad to hear it OU!! Have fun--you deserve it!

 

[Harriet]

Yes! Have loads of fun!!!

 

[steph72276]

Yea for you! Sounds like lots of fun!

 

[Tacori E-ring]

I am so happy for you. When you are young being single is a lot of fun. Enjoy it!

 

[LtlFirecracker]

Enjoy being single, it can be a lot of fun and you can learn so much about who you are and what you want out of life.

 

[Kaleigh]

Yay for you!! You sound great!! I''m so happy for you.

 

[Tuckins1]

Sounds like you''ve definitely bounced back... With a vengeance! Good for you!

 

[AmberGretchen]

So glad to hear this wonderful update - it sounds like you are enjoying being single for all its worth, exactly as you should! Good for you, and enjoy the New Year

 

[bee*]

yay! Delighted to hear that you''re doing well! Enjoy the dates and live the single life and enjoy yourself for a while!

 

[Steel]

Good for you!

(Watch out for the re-bound)

 

[Rhea]

Date: 1/1/2009 5:34:07 PM
Author: Steel
Good for you!


(Watch out for the re-bound)

LOL!

Do have fun!

 

[Dancing Fire]

Date: 1/1/2009 3:29:01 PM
Author:OUpeargirl
A lot of you were very helpful and sweet to me following a devastating break up.. I just wanted to report back on how things are going now.

I was doing okay for the last 2 and a half months.. but I wasn''t really happy. Then one day something randomly snapped, and I no longer had any desire to be with him anymore. I think at this point I miss having a boyfriend, but not necessarily him in particular.

So now.. I LOVE BEING SINGLE! I haven''t been single except for first semester of freshman year. I had no idea so many boys thought I was cute.. and I had no idea there were SO many cute boys out there! I am really having fun and ''playing the field.'' I have dates with 3 different boys lined up.. Hehe this is SO fun!

Anyway, I just thought those of you that were so kind to me would like to know that I am doing SO much better! Thank you for everything you said to me, it really did help.

heck, IF....i had 3 different girls lined up i too would be a happy camper.

 

[movie zombie]

great way to start a new year!

movie zombie

 

[OUpearlgirl]

Thank you, thank you! My mom keeps telling me that I''m just like miss Scarlett at the barbecue with too many suitors. I''m okay with that

 

[girlie-girl]

I''m happy to hear you''re doing so much better. I hope you enjoy this time of "having too many suitors" as your Mom would say. LOL It''s amazing what we find out there when we actually open our eyes!

Good luck finding your Mr. Perfect and in the meantime enjoy all the attention!!

 

[vespergirl]

Yay, I''m so glad to hear that! You should totally enjoy being single - play the field, date as many different guys as you can keep track of

, have fun! Even though I am happily married now, I always enjoyed the thrill of being pursued, and there are days when you miss those fun first date, first kiss experiences. Good luck to you!

 

[redfaerythinker]

YAY! I''m so glad that you checked in and are doing so well! Enjoy yourself out there girlie!

 

[BlueSki231]

Date: 1/1/2009 6:21:57 PM
Author: OUpeargirl
Thank you, thank you! My mom keeps telling me that I''m just like miss Scarlett at the barbecue with too many suitors. I''m okay with that

Ha, that''s cute!!
Good to hear your doing well! Have fun!

 

[jewelerman]

thanks for update!

 

[pjean]

Good for you!

Btw, we''re totally going to quote your post at others in your situation. There''s no advice as good as that from someone who''s just been in the same shoes!

 

[OUpearlgirl]

You all make me smile! Pjean, I definitely think the old thread and this update thread will be useful for PSers going through anything similar in the future! I haven''t let myself read the old thing yet, beginning to end. I was soooo sad and so doom and gloom! I feel silly now for wasting so much time being upset.. but I also think that next time I get my heart broken I''ll bounce back a lot faster!

If the right guy came along I''d love to be in a relationship. Right now I''m just enjoying that feeling of "new boy." Ya know, how excited you get over the really little things? It''s way more fun than dwelling on the past!

I wish Sunshine would come in and post here as well.. I hope she is feeling better about things too!

P.S. Any of you have any cute, single brothers/friends/sons that I need to meet? Haha I''m just kidding!!

 

[Dreamer_D]

Great news OU... I bet you aren't single for long!

Seems to me that Mr. Right always comes along when you start enjoying being single!

 

[JulieN]

Glad that you''re doing well.

I''ve recently had my "snap," too, and it does feel good.

 

[Kelli]

This is GREAT to hear! Good for you!

 

[joflier]

Good for you oupear!!! Glad to hear your doing well and happy!

 

[fieryred33143]

Oh man the best feeling in the world after a breakup is the moment you wake up and realize you really don''t want to be with him anymore.

Good for you! Enjoy being single. Everyone should have their single time. I def. enjoyed mine when I was single

 

[Mannequin]

We all knew you could do it.

Happy 2009, OUP. You''re on track to making this year one of your best ever - relish your independence, pursue your best interests and dreams, and HAVE FUN!

 

[scarleta]

Have fun OUpeargirl: you deserve it.Happy New Year to you.

 

[KimberlyH]

OU, I''m so glad to hear that you are doing well. Enjoy this time, and not just dating but exploring your own likes dislikes, interests, etc. It will help you select the right partner for you in the long run.