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Shiny_Rock
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so this may be a question often-asked, but i wanted to know what to do regarding my bridal party.
i have my half-sister as a bridesmaid and my best friend since 12 as my MOH. then i have 3 close friends as the other bridesmaids. that totals in 5 for my party.
my fiance has three close friends for his party, and he is considering asking my brother to make it more thoughtful and inclusive of my family.
issue is, my fiance has an older sister, married with two kids now. should i ask her to be a BM as well? that would rack it up to 6 in my party, and 5 is already really too much for me. should i ask her to be my matron of honor? if i do that, then one of my close friends who is also married now, may feel offended that she isn''t the matron of honor. after all, i am closer to my friend than to my fiance''s sister. we''re not that close!
what should i do, or what have you done or would do?
i have my half-sister as a bridesmaid and my best friend since 12 as my MOH. then i have 3 close friends as the other bridesmaids. that totals in 5 for my party.
my fiance has three close friends for his party, and he is considering asking my brother to make it more thoughtful and inclusive of my family.
issue is, my fiance has an older sister, married with two kids now. should i ask her to be a BM as well? that would rack it up to 6 in my party, and 5 is already really too much for me. should i ask her to be my matron of honor? if i do that, then one of my close friends who is also married now, may feel offended that she isn''t the matron of honor. after all, i am closer to my friend than to my fiance''s sister. we''re not that close!
what should i do, or what have you done or would do?