So its a long drawn out story but the basic part is this: My 26 year old girlfriend says she wants to get married, I had an earlier attempt foiled because after asking her Mom''s blessing (no Dad in the picture) - the Mom called her and warned her. The Mom has some issues with us getting married. Now my girlfriend just wants to talk to her Mom and tell her how she feels and that she doesn''t think she should have to explain herself and that she hopes her Mom will support her decision. But every time she calls her Mom the past 2 weeks something is going on and they can''t really talk. We''ve tried going out there, and we had a nice visit, but there was ''no good time to talk about it''. Somedays the phone is busy, the Mom''s not home, or there are people over and the Mom can''t talk. This has been going on for a month.
Do you think she just isn''t sure she wants to marry me? Should I put my foot down somehow? I fear this will turn out to be a pattern throughout our life together. She seems to be scared to upset her Mom since her Mom has been throught a lot in her life, but she is upsetting herself in the process... What should I do?
Do you think she just isn''t sure she wants to marry me? Should I put my foot down somehow? I fear this will turn out to be a pattern throughout our life together. She seems to be scared to upset her Mom since her Mom has been throught a lot in her life, but she is upsetting herself in the process... What should I do?