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Brilliant_Rock
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@Lindsay Loo ... just a note about buying the diamond and setting at the same place ....
I totally “hear” you when you say you would prefer to get both at the same place ... but .... if you really want to get the diamond you want in the setting you want, I think that it is not much more effort and would encourage you to buy the setting you want and have it sent to the vendor that has the diamond you want. By shipping the setting instead of the diamond, you ship the less expensive item (most times), and the diamond vendor will set the diamond, so if the diamond gets damaged during setting, there are no issues getting the diamond replaced.
It really is not as much hassle as you may think. You can even get the setting vendor to send the setting directly to the diamond vendor (if you don’t want to see and try on the setting first), and so really it is two online purchases and a bit of extra communication with the vendors ... that’s all the extra effort involved, and you get what you want.
Also, do not assume that the setting on the diamond vendor’s site are the only ones they can provide. If you find a designer setting and it is not listed with the diamond vendor, if you ask, sometimes the diamond vendor can source the same setting.
I do hope you steer away from the shallow crown diamond. Even if is is ok, you can do better. I think you got some examples of GIA rounding ... consider the crown angle may be lower than 32.5 in some places, although with the reported crown percentage, it is probably not that bad. It is hard when dealing with personal jewellers, but remind yourself that you owe him nothing ... because you don’t. This is business, and having spent time on a failed sale is just part of business. As long as you were seriously looking in the first place, you have not wasted the jeweller’s time ... if anything, he has wasted yours by not providing a superior diamond. It’s your money and you will have to live with the diamond. I doubt the jeweller would lose one second of sleep over this, lol.
Good luck! And please remember to post pictures for us to drool over!
I totally “hear” you when you say you would prefer to get both at the same place ... but .... if you really want to get the diamond you want in the setting you want, I think that it is not much more effort and would encourage you to buy the setting you want and have it sent to the vendor that has the diamond you want. By shipping the setting instead of the diamond, you ship the less expensive item (most times), and the diamond vendor will set the diamond, so if the diamond gets damaged during setting, there are no issues getting the diamond replaced.
It really is not as much hassle as you may think. You can even get the setting vendor to send the setting directly to the diamond vendor (if you don’t want to see and try on the setting first), and so really it is two online purchases and a bit of extra communication with the vendors ... that’s all the extra effort involved, and you get what you want.
Also, do not assume that the setting on the diamond vendor’s site are the only ones they can provide. If you find a designer setting and it is not listed with the diamond vendor, if you ask, sometimes the diamond vendor can source the same setting.
I do hope you steer away from the shallow crown diamond. Even if is is ok, you can do better. I think you got some examples of GIA rounding ... consider the crown angle may be lower than 32.5 in some places, although with the reported crown percentage, it is probably not that bad. It is hard when dealing with personal jewellers, but remind yourself that you owe him nothing ... because you don’t. This is business, and having spent time on a failed sale is just part of business. As long as you were seriously looking in the first place, you have not wasted the jeweller’s time ... if anything, he has wasted yours by not providing a superior diamond. It’s your money and you will have to live with the diamond. I doubt the jeweller would lose one second of sleep over this, lol.
Good luck! And please remember to post pictures for us to drool over!