Hello all!
I will very soon be proposing to my wonderful girlfriend. My idea has evolved quite a bit since its original conception. But I am a little stuck now.
It will take place in the place where we met. It is a public place, but there is a private area where the proposal will happen. It will be decorated
I tossed around the idea of having friends or family there, but decided against it. I will have a friend helping me with the surprise element however.
Now, without giving too much away, here is my idea and what I am struggling with. My idea is sort of a scavenger hunt in this place. IT would be relatively easy, but along the way there would be notes about some of our time together. At the end there is a puzzle (easy) she would solve which would tell her where to meet me.
Now, she is a smart girl. She knows I will have a ring soon, so chances are she will know what is about after reading the first one.
My struggle is, will this spoil it? Would me simply tricking her to come to this place and proposing be memorable?
I think my idea is great (I would share more, but I can''t!) I just don''t want her to become anxious since she would know what is going on.
I was thinking that maybe I could first propose, then have her do the hunt... but at that point I don''t think she would be very interested!
So, I guess, would it be better to just do it with her totally surprised? Or do have her do something I think she would enjoy even though it would sort of alert her, and then propose?
Thanks!
I will very soon be proposing to my wonderful girlfriend. My idea has evolved quite a bit since its original conception. But I am a little stuck now.
It will take place in the place where we met. It is a public place, but there is a private area where the proposal will happen. It will be decorated
I tossed around the idea of having friends or family there, but decided against it. I will have a friend helping me with the surprise element however.
Now, without giving too much away, here is my idea and what I am struggling with. My idea is sort of a scavenger hunt in this place. IT would be relatively easy, but along the way there would be notes about some of our time together. At the end there is a puzzle (easy) she would solve which would tell her where to meet me.
Now, she is a smart girl. She knows I will have a ring soon, so chances are she will know what is about after reading the first one.
My struggle is, will this spoil it? Would me simply tricking her to come to this place and proposing be memorable?
I think my idea is great (I would share more, but I can''t!) I just don''t want her to become anxious since she would know what is going on.
I was thinking that maybe I could first propose, then have her do the hunt... but at that point I don''t think she would be very interested!
So, I guess, would it be better to just do it with her totally surprised? Or do have her do something I think she would enjoy even though it would sort of alert her, and then propose?
Thanks!