I just got a message from a friend on facebook checking if I was engaged. Apparently, another friend of hers recently got engaged and she had to ''make sure I wasn''t engaged as well''.
I''m getting kind of sick of being the person that other people look at to make themselves feel better. It''s like they think "I''m not engaged, but at least Lozza isn''t either". Ok, I know SO and I have been together a long time (7 yrs), but I''m only 27, which in Sydney is still young enough to be getting married.
I feel like it''s going to be such an anti-climax when we get engaged. My parents have given up on me getting married and started hassling my younger brother. Most of my friends have assumed we don''t plan to get married, and have started asking when we''re going to have kids. I''m worried that no one will be excited for us when it finally happens, which should be within a month or so.
Does anyone else feel this way? And for those who were with there SO for a long time before getting engaged, were people still excited for you or were they a bit over it by then?
Thanks
/rant.
I''m getting kind of sick of being the person that other people look at to make themselves feel better. It''s like they think "I''m not engaged, but at least Lozza isn''t either". Ok, I know SO and I have been together a long time (7 yrs), but I''m only 27, which in Sydney is still young enough to be getting married.
I feel like it''s going to be such an anti-climax when we get engaged. My parents have given up on me getting married and started hassling my younger brother. Most of my friends have assumed we don''t plan to get married, and have started asking when we''re going to have kids. I''m worried that no one will be excited for us when it finally happens, which should be within a month or so.
Does anyone else feel this way? And for those who were with there SO for a long time before getting engaged, were people still excited for you or were they a bit over it by then?
Thanks
/rant.