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Rob Porter Forced To Resign

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Rob Porter, second in command to John Kelly at The White House, has been forced to resign. He was never able to obtain a security clearance due to his history of domestic violence, but The White House overlooked it until it became public. His resignation becomes official tomorrow.

Excerpts from an article in "The New York Times" are below.

"In the White House, Mr. Porter, 40, had been widely regarded as a rising star. A Harvard graduate, Rhodes scholar and former Senate aide, Mr. Porter was an ally of Mr. Kelly’s and a steady force in a West Wing populated by aides vying for face time with — and influence over — the president. But, a year into his job, Mr. Porter did not have the permanent security clearance that aides of his rank always have.

Ms. Willoughby, Mr. Porter’s second wife, said in an interview on Wednesday that when the F.B.I. was conducting research for Mr. Porter’s security clearance, he asked her whether she had told investigators about their marriage.

'He believed that that was holding up his clearance,' Ms. Willoughby said. 'I did describe my marriage in detail.'

Ms. Willoughby, who said that she divorced Mr. Porter in November 2013, decided to go public about the allegations after facing pressure from Mr. Porter to issue a statement that she felt 'minimized' her experiences in their marriage.

In addition to asking her about what she said to F.B.I. officials, Mr. Porter, she said, had been in touch several times over the past year to urge her to take down a blog post in which she detailed abuse in their marriage without naming him.

According to an emergency protective order she filed in June 2010 against him in an Arlington, Va., court, Ms. Willoughby accused Mr. Porter of growing angry when she said he had violated a private separation agreement. A day later, her complaint said, Mr. Porter entered her apartment with a key he had not given back.

According to her complaint, Mr. Porter left only after Ms. Willoughby had asked him to leave several times. He returned minutes later and 'punched in the glass on the door,' trying to get into the apartment. He left the property after she read her name and address aloud to a 911 dispatcher.

'When he heard me on the phone with the police,' Ms. Willoughby wrote in the complaint, 'he apologized and begged me not to involve them.'

Ms. Holderness, Mr. Porter’s first wife, described their relationship as 'verbally, emotionally and physically abusive' in an interview with The Daily Mail. In photographs she gave to The Intercept, Ms. Holderness has a blackened right eye and a swollen cheekbone.

In his statement, Mr. Porter said the pictures of Ms. Holderness were misleading.

'I took the photos given to the media nearly 15 years ago, and the reality behind them is nowhere close to what is being described,' he said. 'I have been transparent and truthful about these vile claims, but I will not further engage publicly with a coordinated smear campaign.'

The White House sent several statements to The Mail on Tuesday evening in support of Mr. Porter. In one, Mr. Kelly, who in recent months has leaned heavily on Mr. Porter in his efforts to bring order to a once chaotic West Wing, called Mr. Porter 'a man of true integrity' whom he could not say 'enough good things' about.

'Rob is in fact charming and intelligent and diligent and extremely good at his job,' Ms. Willoughby said. 'And, in capital letters, abusive and manipulative and toxic in his personal relationships.'”

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/07/...column-region&region=top-news&WT.nav=top-news

Now would somebody please throw that Male Chauvinist Pig John Kelly out of the White House? Trump may be covered in teflon, but why do we have to put up with the disgusting comtempt for women dished out by Kelly? And Trump will be out-either via impeachment, resignation, or jail anyway. It just may not be soon enough to save the country.
 
Ugh. I read up to the “punched glass door” and knew I’d be triggered to do something unhealthy by reading further.

I know, I know, conservatives. I should take my snowflake, sensitive ass to a safe place and play with some play-doh.
:(sad
 
Listening to Kelly’s comments made me sick. How many abusers show up for work the next day and talk about beating their wife? ZERO!!! This guy had a police report, a restraining order and the White House gave him a pass. The only reason Porter was asked to resignation was because there is a picture. They would have lied their way out of this too if the picture didn’t exist.

If Hope Hicks has a brain in her head she better RUN.
 
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If Hope Hicks has a brain in her head
she better RUN.

She doesn't. Remember the story of how she told Trump how unhappy she was about her relationship with Corey Lewandowski, the thug who was arrested for battery when he grabbed reporter Michelle Fields by the arm, and Trump consoled her by telling her she was "the best piece of ass" Lewandowski ever had? She seems to be drawn to batterers.
 
Forced to resign because it was a PR problem for the WH - not because of the issue. Seems that many who knew were more than happy to turn their back on the known facts and compromised character of their colleague. As for Hicks, she better run. She won't be any different than his other victims and I'd be sorely afraid his behavior would escalate even further each time.
 
Wow. Just watched a news report and Trump just invited the press into the room and then proceeded to praise and wish the abuser all the best. No mention of his victims. He said porter is having a tough time.
So despite a restraining order & 2 ex wives and a girlfriend coming forth, trump takes the abusers word over multiple women.
This is just sick. Based on trump’s past I guess we should be glad he didnt say there were fine people on BOTH sides of the vase that was behind that black eye picture. We should all know by now trump wasnt kidding in the slightest when he told philip johnson that women should be treated like s*** .

How did we end up with this country run by these people. And then we have people who defend trump regardless of his behavior - even in defending an abuser-
How did society miss the fact that abusers are not all the stereotypical perpectually drunk belligerent beer belly slobs. Most abusers look And behave like decent people. They dont run around advertising their crimes. Most abuse is hidden well. And when women come forward they are dismissed. And if they dont they are criticized for that too. Most abusers learn not to leave marks. We find out there are Multiple victims and kelly ignores and trump feels bad for the perpetrator.
I feel physically ill thinking about this. What is going on :(
 
Men like Porter rarely change and their behavior often escalates. The man is forty years old and the girlfriend before Hicks talked to one of his ex wives about his behavior in 2016. His ex wife said he called her a week or two ago and asked her to take a blog post she wrote about their relationship down and to basically lie if she’s was asked questions.

CNN just reported that Trump defends Rob Porter after abuse allegations but expresses no sympathy for the women who were his alleged victims.

So now we have the abuser President defending another abuser SURPRISE, SURPRISE!!!!! How could anyone possibly be shocked.

It says a lot about our country that are still women standing behind this president.
 
This is a videotape of an interview with Jessica Corbett, the ex-wife of David Sorensen. He resigned from his job at The White House two days after Mr. Porter when his history of domestic abuse became public knowledge. His ex-wife did not come forward until Donald Trump tweeted that men who were accused of domestic abuse were having their lives ruined.

Link to video...
 
There are definitely men out there who have two faces, their professional face, and the face they have in personal relationships. Sometimes these people are very high functioning and competent, but have control issues in private. My ex, never hit me, had a temper. He's normally very easy going, even joking, so probably most would be surprised if they knew. One time he was so drunk I slept on the couch. He wanted me back in bed, pulled me off the couch and then threw the blankets and pillows at me. He has been physical with the youngest, from losing his temper. He has broken in anger over the years, the dashboard of a car, a kitchen cabinet door, household items, and a car window.
 
Where is Lorena Bobbitt when you really need her?
 
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